Definitely be completely comfortable with you Doctor.... and don't be afraid to say" Hey I am not leaving, I have questions and concerned, and as far as I know, I am paying a lot of money to be here right now." Let them know you are concerned... you have every right to know what is going on with your body....
Another thing a Dr. friend of mine said.... it is YOUR body... when a Dr. tells you something is "minor surgery", it may be minor to him/her, but it is major to you because it is happening to your body...
I had to switch my Doctor because I can't even use a good word to describe the guy I had, I felt the same way... He and his father ran the "business", and were not only OBGYNs, but also ran a cosmetic surgery center out of the same place. So, you have to wait forever to get an appt... well, I finally got in there, got an appt. a month after I called (I was having pain, and got nervous, I am not a freaking Doctor, get me an appointment!) So, I am in the waiting room for an hour and a half, and have class in like 45 min... and they start calling all these people who got there after me! I went up to the desk and they were like, "oh, you have an appt.? (even though I had checked in at the desk). THEN, when I said I had been waiting forever and had to leave, they offered to give me another appointment over a month away! WTF?! I flipped out... Some Doctors just plain suck... like the one i went to...
Call them, or walk in there, and be like, okay, here are a list of things I need to be addressed... and go for it...
Martha, doesn't it stink that to get normal answers you almost have to be pushy about it Things should not be this way! Frustrating!