ErinB

My DH has this tone of voice that drives me up the f-ing wall! I don't know if he hears the words that come out of his mouth or what, but most of the time I want to strangle him! He gets this paternal, condescending, patronzing tone that immediately sets me off. He sounds like I'm a bad kid that will get grounded if I don't follow directions. He has got to stop this or I will walk out the door! I don't think he means things the way he says them, it just doesn't come out well. For example last night he says, "The dishes need to be done by the time I get back home" WTF No one talks to me like that. I know what he meant was that we need to keep on top of housework here at the new place. I'm the first to admit that I have problems with male authority figures (always have) and if I feel I'm being backed into a corner, I come out fighting. I tune him out and do not handle myself well. Once I, very maturely, picked up a glass and threw it at the wall behind him and it shattered everywhere! His family is very traditional with dad being the head of the house. He's also a retired military, my way or the highway kind of guy. I've noticed after we've spent time with them (the parents were here all weekend helping with the move) that DH tends to act this way. I don't know what to do! We jsut got into a fight over the phone about it. I don't want to talk to him ever again right now. I'm not usually hot-headded but this sets me off every time!

That is sad! You might want to check to see what the rules are for photographers as guests. My photog was a guest for the week with us and I had a cousin taking pictures as well. My understanding was that an outside vendor used to have to pay a fee, but nothing was said to anyone in our party.

I LOVE Beck's answer. I'm not in the nicest of moods either. I think Megan's answer might be best. Tell them you understand, are disappointed, not surprised that this happend and that you are saddened that FSIL couldn't tell you herself. I think you do need to address the situation for you, so it doesn't fester, and be done with it.

I'm so sorry to hear that. My thoughts will be with your and your FI as he goes through this difficult time. Too often we don't show or tell those around us how much they mean to us.

I hope the wedding was amazing! It will certainly be memorable! Congrats to you both!

Very cute! They will add a nice touch to the tables!

Congrats and welcome! We have several PC brides! Have fun searching the forum. You'll find tons of helpful info!

You are right, his income will have to be counted, as well as any assets in his name, when you apply for FA next year if you get married this year. Double check with your school about student insurance. You should be able to get some for about $500 per semester. That would carry you through until you can qualify as a domestic partner. Is there a particular reason you need insurance right now? I personally would probably gamble and not have insurance until Jan. Or, reduce your plan to the very minimum to only cover catastrophic illness. I used to work at the University of Louisville, in academics, but my students were freshmen and sophomores so I learned a lot about finanical aid. I'll see if I can find some more specific info for you.

You have had the best showers! Your family and friends are great! It looks like you had a lot of fun.

I was thinking Serena's dress at the white party would make a pretty DW dress! It actually reminded me of Morgan's dress.

oops, double post

So I guess you decided we weren't crazy internet stalkers, LOL So is the G for your last name or your married name? I changed my username before the wedding and went with my married initial.

Do you know anything yet? We just moved this weekend. It's very exciting and nerve-racking all at the same time! Good luck! Keep us posted!

Quote: Originally Posted by jpgso I have searched everywhere for one....may I borrow someone's?? I leave for Jamaica October 29th. I promise to take VERY good care of it....PM me if you have one I may borrow. Thanks BUNCHES!! Jennifer - If you'd like to borrow my blue one, you are welcome to it. It feels special that it would be returning to CSA. Let me know if you're interested.

i got mine at Bouquet Jewels - Unique Bouquets for Unique Brides It was about $15

Yay Erica! You've had a big week! We want pics of both!

OMG! I heart him too! you two look so happy and in love. He really was able to capture that. I can't wait to see more TTD pics!

I love GG! There is another thread around here about it (last season). I don't know how I feel about 90210. I have watched a few re-runs of the old ones on WE, the good ones when they were in high school. It's pretty cheesy, then again it was the early 90s. But I LOVED the show back then. I have a feeling 2.0 will either try to be another GG or will be super bad like 1.0s college years.

Congrats to you both! I hope it is even better than you imagined!

I love those programs! Those are super creative! Your guests will love them! How many guests will you have? I could never put forth that much work for over 30 people. LOL

It was weird the first time I was introduced as Mike's wife. I'd heard other people say it but it was different when he did.

Welcome! I was married in Negril and I loved it! Good choice! Congrats and Happy Planning!

OMG Heather! I have never seen a Puggle, but he is aborable! I just want to come over and squeeze him!

Well said Glenda. had I found this last night, I probably would have called the local news station. That would have drawn lots of attention and certainly have gotten the dog adopted.

A good friend is turning 30 in a few weeks. I am already helping host the party for her. I want to give a special gift, but am at a loss. We usually do spa treatments, etc and i kind of wanted something "commerative" of the occasion that she could keep. I also can't spend a billion dollars, I'm thinking $50 or less, because we just bought the house and I'm spending a couple hundred on the party. Any thoughts?