ErinB

The same exact thing happened to me. We were engaged in March and BIL proposed in May. We said we were planning a summer wedding - June/July but had to wait to select a date because there weren't any published rates. We couldn't select a date until 10 months out. BIL's finacee didn't want a long engagement, so they picked Memorial Day weekend, 3 weeks before our wedding. This did cause some tension within the family and was a concern financially. The bottom line is you have to do what is best for you. You gave her fair warning saying that you were looking at late 09/ early 10. You also have ample time to start saving for both weddings. You have to consider if it is worth it to have a friend at your wedding and not you family. I don't think this needs to be a dramatic situation if you can get it addressed soon and are open with each other as planning goes on. Like Yari said, she probably has a lot on her plate right now and very sensitive. I would let it go for now and try not to read anything into it. I hope you can get everything resolved. Good luck!

Welcome back! We missed you! Now we need pics or a summary of all the posts by Friday. (I'd take the picture option)

OK, I'm a little teary! You look radiantly happy! Congrats married lady!

Amazing photos as usual!

Glad I'm not the only one that thought WTF? about his name. I wouldn't want to name my kid after an orphan raised by wolves... Bronx isn't my fave, but it's definitely better than Mowgli. I bet he is a cutie pie though!

You can try E-bay, Craig's List, SavetheDress.com - Used wedding dresses. New, sample & used designer gowns. Buy & sell online., or browse the for sale section here.

Everything looks wonderful! I bet you are ao excited! ANd what a great break from freezing weather. You and your guests will have an amazing time. Congrats!

here's the article. The new owners better follow the rules and tape them! ?Puppy cam? is latest Web sensation - TODAY: Pets - MSNBC.com I love that they crawl all over each other. They should wake up again when the people come home and play with them.

here's the article. The new owners better follow the rules and tape them! ?Puppy cam? is latest Web sensation - TODAY: Pets - MSNBC.com I love that they crawl all over each other. They should wake up again when the people come home and play with them.

You looked beautiful! I love your dress! More pics please!

Not to worry Yolanda, the company UStream is giving all of the new owners web cams so people can check on on the puppies. I'm a little bit obsessed!

I love them Jaq! I'm all about the bling!

You'll probably be ok on the honeymoon with all of the walking/climbing/hiking there is to do in Italy. No to mention other "activities" that have been known to happen on honeymoons.

If you go to the site from the UStream website you can see archived videos! On page 4 or so is when they are super tiny! Shiba Inu Puppy Cam, Ustream.TV: Tune in daily to see the cutest Shiba Inu pups... EVER! The. Travel&Nature,Nature,Webcam,Entertainment,Funny Cats,

That is the theory behind the Atkins and South Beach diets. You can easily find info about each of them. All fruits and veggies have carbs, some just more than others. By cutting "bad carbs" - basically "white foods" (potatoes, pasta, rice, bread, sugar) you will drop a bunch of weight, as much as 10 pounds the first week. It's not difficult to do, if you do it correctly. I will tell you that the weight will come back on pretty quickly when you start eating "bad carbs" again. I'm not against it for a quick fix, but don't recommend it for a long term eating lifestyle.

They are waking up and stretching! How cute! Has anyone seen the Mommy Dog? I wonder how many more people will do this now? I could watch puppies all day long!

Crap! They aren't on! There is however, a really cute slideshow.

The only thing missing is a line for Birthday! We have about 20 birthdays in September so DH always gets confused.

OMG Tammy they are precious!

Martha Stewart did some that were really cute. Let me find them for you... Here you go! http://www.marthastewart.com/good-th...ummer-weddings

I love the one that won't let the others sleep.

It looks like they might be getting sleepy! Harley seriously doesn't know what to do. It is hysterical!

I think that is going in a certain someone's stocking! He's looking over my should screaming "YES! I NEED ONE!"

Don't get me wrong, Morgan. You've had some great posts, but this has to be the best EVER!

Harley is going crazy! He is barking at the computer screen and bringing it toys! I wonder if he understand puppy?