ErinB

Welcome! I'm a Jamaica bride, but not a Sandals bride. The Sandals resorts in Negril really weren't the best deal for us and what we wanted to do, so we went with Couples. My biggest thing was that they don't allow any outside vendors. I'm lucky to have 2 photographers in my family. THey are going to handle the pictures and video as my gift. The same package from Sandals would have been over $2000!

Welcome to the forum! I'm a Jamiaca bride, if you have any particular questions I'll be happy to help!

If anyone getting married and returning home before May 15 interested in selling your slip? I prefer one with a zipper and probably a size 10. I know David's sells them but I hate to spend $50+ for something no one will see.

Congratulations! I'm sure all of the pictures will be amazing! And like you said, if you're only going to do this once, you might as well go all out!

That is so true! I was a member of another board before I found BDW. First of all people weren't very helpful or supportive of DWs anyway, and secondly it was like people looked for a reason to fight! It was a type-writte Judge Judy! I posted something about Jamaica and someone else posted how it was a dangerous 3rd world country and people who visit are exploiting the "natives". It turned into a huge black/white cat fight! Needless to say, I quit posting to that group!

What a beautiful dress! I'll cross my fingers and hope the mail comes early today!

LOL! I danced with a goat because Big Bird said to and he's my leader.

It should be really pretty! If you're ok with them wearing white, then why not? I love the idea of the sash and a colorful bouquet. Our Bridesmaids dresses are somewhere on here. I told my girls to order whichever tea length dress they were most comfortable in in Tiffany (aqua) from the same company so they all match. They are Mori Lee and were about $115 total. I got $25 off each dress because I bought my dress from that botique. Tricia this might be the pic you were thinking of?

Thanks for all of the timelines! Those were actually on my next week's to-do list. This week I'm still trying to finalize our reception details. Our resort changed coordinators and just yesterday updated all meal package info, so we get to start all over! Yeah!

That's right, people are coming because they love and support you and your FI. OOT bags are not the reason they are traveling. I think they sound wonderful and will be a welcome surprise. Put the wedding stuff away for a few minutes and give yourself some breathing room. Think of all the things you've accomplished so far to give yourself some perspective! I'm going to have to mark this thread because I'm sure I will be feeling the same way 16 days before my wedding! At least you have your dress! Mine is on back order and not even supposed to be in until about a week before we leave!

bI think your easy/safe response would be "that would be perfect and if we were having flower girls, they would definitely be the only ones I would ask. But we aren't having flower girls, so at least you won't have to worry about any extra expense." That is great advice Tami. I hate when people pull that crap! We've been together for almost 6 years and have always talked about a DW. People could have started saving 3-4 years ago, or a year ago when we got engaged! I never asked, nor would I , someone to sell their posessions to come to my wedding, so don't imply it! My stepmom was saying the same things, pretty much word for word. But she did call last night to say that she realized that it was my day and she wouldn't mind if I had pictures made with my parents together! I've decided that most people nowdays are just crazy!

Welcome to the Forum! Be careful or you'll becaome addicted!

Welcome! I'm sure your site visits will enable you to make the best decision. I really wish we could have done one!

Welcome! We're glad to have you! I've heard Cuba is absolutely beautiful! If that is your destination, you might be our only Cuba bride!

Welcome to the Forum!

Welcome Jen! I'm sure you will find tons of useful information on the forum. Don't stress too much! Once you pick your location it's much easier to move forward. The research you're doing now will really help you out later on. I kind of did it backwards and had a few issues!

Our colors are aqua and turquoise. Our flowers are going to be different shades of pink and white. The bouquets will be hand tied with aqua ribbon. I'm actually taking silks with me so as soon as I get them in I'll post pictures. It should be in March.

I say stay out of it, especailly before the wedding. BIL may already know what is going on if this isn't the first time she's done something like this. In my experience, most people with a cheating parter know it--it's whether they admit it. Your wedding is too close to cause a rift between you and your finacee. You will have enough on your plate that you don't need to worry about someone else and their actions. I do think you need to tell her (alone) that you do not agree with her behavior and you would appreciate it if she doesn't get hammered and make out with the band at your wedding.

Welcome! I'm so sorry to hear about your hotel! At least you aren't totally back to square one, you've had some planning experience. I'm sure the ladies will be very helpful to you!

Welcome and happy planning! Be careful though, you may become addicted!

I like the enclosure cards in shower invites. I was brought up in an old-school family where it was inappropraite to print that info. When I registered I got the little cards and passed them along to my mom, who will hand them out to the shower hostess. After much debate, I did put the like to our registry on our web-site. I can't BELIEVE someone would register for cash. That is the most uncouth thing I have ever heard! I wouldn't send them a present either, Maura!

How pretty Maura! I LOVE your e-ring! I'm thinking of getting mine re-mounted in a similar setting. We'll most likely get our rings from Shane Co. We've had great customer service from them and we both need custom sizes. I'm a 5 and he's a 14!

We're pretty close out of our 30 confirmed so far, with a few more friends than family. Of course some of my friends have been around so longer and are closer than family. My BFF from 1st grade will be there! I'd much rather have him than my cousin I see once every year or two!

http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t13641 Check out Courtney's wording on her STD's. I loved it! I had my guests RSVP through my website, so they could see all of the travel info, cost, etc. They had a choice of yes, no, and send more info/brochures.

My dress was over my budget of $500. I ended up spending about $850 for the dress, so it will be $1000 by the time it is altered. It is a Casablanca. My seamstress said those were her favorite gowns to work with because they are so well made, even better than some of the couture gowns! I was able to save money elsewhere though. I bought my veil online for $60 instead of $160 at the boutique. I found my slip on e-bay for $35 instead of $110. My earrings were on clearance at Macy's for $4!