I am really pissed at one of my best friends! I now I should be because she is a good friend, she's hosting my bachelorette in Chicago, and hosting a shower for me.
But...She won't come to the wedding! They can definitely afford to come. They had a big investment pay off to the tune of 10K! I don't think her husband really wants to go so he won't "let her come without him". They've know about our wedding forever and were part of my "I won't miss it for the world (until something else comes along)" group. A few years ago we all decided to take a vacation the year we turned 30 plus or minus for a few of us. Well, this is the summer we had planned! I just don't get it and it really hurts my feelings! I'm the type who bends over backwards for my friends. Her DH, that I really do like, tells me "we aren't coming but we'll get you a nice gift". I don't care about gifts I want to celebrate with my friends! The thing is that one of our other friends is trying to go but has to figure out her work schedule. I'm almost positive if that couple goes DH will jump on the bandwagon because he hates to be left out!