I really like beach weddings. Growing up I thought I would have the Cathedral wedding and reception at the country club, but that isn't really us as a couple. My FI has major problems with organized religion so the church was not an option for him.
We both have family scattered all over the country, so people would still have to travel and we would be dealing with hotels, rental cars, etc. anyway. This way we can all spend some time together and actually get to visit with our guests.
Even though it will be a DW I'm still having my big white dress, bridesmaids, etc.
I truly believe that a DW was the best decision (compromise) for us.