So, we are getting married at ROR, we are having the free wedding. Our actual expenses include the steel drum band, the extra things like flowers, cake upgrade, attire, and rings. Oh, and travel of course! Both my parents and FI parents are financially okay. My parents are paying for travel for them, my little sis, her boyfriend, my bro, his wife, their 2 kids, FI, my grandma, and I. They are also paying for my dress, the steel drum band and the cake and flowers. I am sorta annoyed cause his parents did not offer to pay for anything. Shouldn't they? I feel like my parents are taking the total responsibility. His mom said to me something about how the groom's family typically pays for rehersal dinner. She then said, i guess you will not have a rehersal dinner. I told her about the other expenses. Am I being a brat for wanting them to call my parents and offer to pay for something? A phone call would make me happy. It is just really getting on my nerves! Thanks, in advance!