I definately want her to go. I'm really good friends with her, she's how i met fi. But she is the type that flips when she doesn't get her way. I'm kind of used to it because fi gets like this too sometimes. She's been a lot of help with the wedding and other things, she's always there when i need her. But she's just over reacting about the flight situation, I think partly because she's over protective with her son.
If she decides not to go, I'm going to try not to be too upset about it. But there's a chance I will hold a grudge and i know fi will be PISSED! I would feel awful for fi because it's his only sibling and they are really close.