I don't know why it's so hard for guys to understand us needing personal time. I love when derek goes out with his friends and I can stay home and relax, watch a chick flick, drink some wine. I even love cleaning and doing housework when he's gone, I feel like i get so much accomplished. If I spend too much time with him, he gets on my nerves. I think that's pretty normal. but it does sound like you need a night or weekend to yourself Celina and I'm sure you deserve it.