I like the dress your looking at, do you know what the detailing is? crystals, lace. it looks beautiful.
I acutally got my dress and I was really dreading dress shopping. Because i'm pale and fat too!!! But you know what the first place i went to was great, i didn't feel like i was being poked and prodded. But the second place I went to I hated, it was david's bridal and i felt like they would just leave me standing in my undies with my dressing room door wide open for everyone else to see. It was an awful experience, about 4 dresses in i just stopped the sales lady and told her i was done. so you need to find a place that your comfortable with. Oh, and i wore boy shorts, i didn't want my ass hanging out. Dress shopping wont' be as bad as you think it will be.
I'm starting my diet next week, joining the BDW biggest losers season 2 for motivation. so hoping next time i try my dress on i'll be thinner and tanner.
I'm actually starting to look for bridesmaid dresses. Goodluck with your dress hunt and let us know how you make out!