Quote: Originally Posted by ethrondson We were going to keep it quiet, but decided not to keep it secret in the end. Everyone is fine with it, and the few that have given us a bit of a look, I tell them that only our MOH and BM are going to be there and that my Mom isn't even going to be there and she is fine with that. Then they are completely fine with it. We also tell them that even though we are doing the legal thing here, we aren't exchanging rings and our 'wedding' will be down in the Dominican. That's great your family understands. I thought about getting married here legally first but i wasn't sure what kind of reaction i would of gotten. Then i thought about keeping it secret but i know my big mouth would of slipped. lol So in the end we decided to do it in the Dominican.