also i want to add, the one thing we splurged on was our photog, and sadly it was about the same time i discovered BDW so i wasnt totally in the know. the one thing we would go back and change is to have done more research before booking a photog. we booked someone who's work we loved, and didnt look at packages, just total cost. we didnt realize that there are a TON of photogs who will give you all the edited images straight away, rather than focusing on prints and album like our photog did.
so we ended up with a beautiful album, and a disc, but no prints to fram or hang because it was just TOO expensive on top of our already pricey package. we ended up paying close to $4k for just a digital flush mount album and about 300 pics on CD. ok yes we did have 2 photogs and the pics are beautiful. BUT we could have got so much more for so much less, with comparable quality images.
also dont rule out flying someone in from the states, you could save a LOT of $. just make sure your resort will allow it!