Okay, here's the dress I think I am going to get. It is ivory, floor length, no train with swarovski crystals (or so they say at Alfred Angelo's) I couldn't find a link to it on their website. I've also included the other one I was interested in which is David's Bridal, also ivory but tea-length. It is very pretty but we think the full length dress is more elegant and formal while still being simple. My sister said the DB one looks like a "very nice party frock." Yep, she called it a frock. Anyhow...here are the pics.
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Party frock