BillysBride

I think the flower idea is really original. You can do whatever you like..you're the bride! But maybe you should give us a little more background. Uneven numbers isn't really a big deal. A lot of us gals have that (I've got five girls, my FH is only having his bro stand up with him). How many friends are you trying to include? And if they are going to be there ANYway, what about having them select a dress they can afford in a style they like and want to wear again, you just pick the color? The biggest expense is just getting there, I think you can avoid heaping too much additional expense on them if you keep the attire low cost. If thats not the route you want to go, I'm sure there are lots of ways to include them...just need a lil' more background, especially numbers.

Ooooooo, scoopage!! Check it out, girls! Ex-Coop from Guiding Light, John Driscoll is now the new Phillip Chancellor IV, son of Nina and the late Phillip Chancellor III. Supposedly, this guy was so good during his audition the casting director actually cried! He's supposed to work heavily with Christel Khalil (Lily) and Elizabeth Hendrickson (Chloe), as well as Adrienne Frantz (Amber). His first airdate is scheduled for May 24. And more... Camryn Grimes (ex-Cassie) comes back during a dream sequence where she leads Sharon through what life would be like for Nicholas and her. On Tuesday, May 5, Jerry Douglas (John Abbot) comes back to give life advice to Billy, Nia Peeples returns as Karen Thursday, May 14, when Karen serves Neil with divorce papers. Neil winds up dancing with Tyra at Lily n Cane's co- bachelor/bachelorette parties. Yea, sounds like he's real torn up about his divorce. Assmunch. Last, look for Della Reese (Touched by an Angel)beginning Monday, May 18 as she takes the role of Neil's Aunt Virginia.

I'm a women's 12/14. My main problem is finding pants that fit right since I'm "hippy". My thighs....oooh, my thighs. lol My mom has always said I was born with hips, and I don't think she's joking. I have a decent waistline, but I have the opposite problem as you, Kathy. Long body, short stubby ass legs. Bah!

Absolutely stunning! You looked gorgeous, Shelley!! Can't wait to see more! CONGRATULATIONS GIRL!

Girl, wear what you want ..it's your wedding day! And don't worry about the number. This is not my first trip to the show either and you better believe I'll be dancin down the aisle in virgin white, veil and AND tiara if thats what my heart desires:) I think you should try them all, including the updo with flowers and just pick whichever one shouts "This is it!" to you.

I think the word "doubt" has negative connotations. Doubting something doesn't necessarily mean that you lack confidence in it or the person. More to the point, it can mean that you doubt your own ability to handle things, OR you doubt circumstances. There can be a lot of things that go into a situation that make you wonder if you'll be able to handle it successfully. Maybe I'm just more....I dunno. I'm older, have been through a LOT and I tend to try really hard to be a realist. There is nothing wrong with worrying, or having a hand full of doubts about something, be it money, family or anything else. It doesn't mean you love him any less than the next bride or that you two aren't meant to be together. I've seen too many people blithely skip down the aisle saying "oh, I just KNOW we'll be together forever" and end up getting the divorce news a year later. That doesn't mean that anyone who has that confidence in their marriage is wrong. It just means that shit happens and in my experience it's the people who doubt, worry and wonder if they can handle things that end up handling it better than most. My best friend (a guy I've known since high school) held off getting married til he was 34 yrs old, and was the biggest confirmed bachelor with cold feet all the way up til the day he walked down the aisle. As far as I can tell, and from what he says, they have the best relationship of anyone I know now, 4 yrs later. My sister waited til she was 42 because of the doubts she had about a couple of situations with my bro in law and now she's like my marriage role model. lol

Quote: A wise friend told me after a sad breakup with my college boyfriend, "The only person you're 100% compatible with is yourself Hahahaha! I know that's right! Love it!

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Quote: Originally Posted by Amelie Hi ladies! I know I am maybe gonna sound crazy, but did you girls ever had doubts that your marriage was gonna work out? Daily. lol I think it's normal to worry and wonder. I worry more about the people who go into marriage believing nothing will ever truly test their relationship than I do about those who have the good sense to wonder if the love they feel will be enough. I've been with this man for YEARS now, am raising children with him and sharing more responsibility than most couples starting out in marriage. And I still worry and wonder. As far as I'm concerned it's completely natural. You never know what life is going to throw at you, but if you go into this with your heart and your eyes open, willing and ready to do all you can to make it work then you've got the right tools. It sounds COMPLETELY unromantic and jaded, but I believe in the advice my mother and grandmother have always given me regarding relationships. "The only loss you can never truly recover from is (God forbid) one of your children." That's not to say go into a marriage thinking its ok if it doesn't work. I'm simply saying, go into it knowing that you're committed, with your whole heart and you will be alright come what may. And while it's healthy to worry a bit, don't let it overtake you. Don't focus so much on the worry that you miss out on enjoying what IS right now. You're in love and planning to spend your life with the guy....enjoy this time. There's nothing else like it.

I agree with Amarillis- my std's go out next month, and that will be 11 months prior. I wanted to send them this month, but I'm giving a little extra time due to the entire swine flu issue. With the wedding being a year away, I doubt very seriously it will still be a factor, BUT I don't want to introduce the idea to our guests while all this crap is flying around so seriously. The only thing I sorta disagree with is not giving guests a destination. I know for those I know, friends not so much family...it will make a difference in their ability to come. To just say "we're going away, so be ready" wouldn't have cut it for my group:) So even if ya can't nail down a city/venue...I'd definitely at least try to give them a head's up on the country. The travel agent was talking nonsense about group numbers. Sounds like she was trying to make sure she got your business. Start looking around, narrow down your location choices so you know where you want to be. As far as booking, from what I've seen, to be honest, anything a year and under works out fine. Personally, I'm gonna try to hold off booking our trip itself til we're within 9 months just because from my price tracking, thats the range that seems to book the cheapest. You can book your wedding and then hold off on booking your travel if that works out better for you.

I cannot believe you're only 5 DAYS OUT NOW!!! Holy crow, are ya nervous? I know you're excited..hell, it's not my wedding and I'm excited for you! Everything looks great, and your sand ceremony stuff looks like mine. lol Love your invites and your cake kit..and your dress is divine! Can't wait to see those pics start comin' in! Have a GREAT trip and a WONDERFUL wedding girl..enjoy!

Awww..thanks girls!! I feel so special! What's that line again? "You like me..you really, really like me!" lol This made my day (which up to now was sorta crappy), so truly, thanks.

I am a froo froo girl. I am not going to waste your time telling you that I don't like make up or think it's necessary. I love the stuff. lol Can't wear it everyday because I simply don't have the time for it, but I LOVE the look of me when I'm all "pulled together". I think for me it's more about the process than anything else. It's part of a ritual I perform when something I know I'm going to enjoy is about to take place, so without it...the day feels a little less than some how. Start to finish, my make up routine doesn't even take a full 10 minutes, so it's not that it's a huge amount, it's just about taking time to do something extra with myself that feels special. Having said all that, I do NOT think you should do anything that will make you look completely different than your day to day look. That defeats the purpose and you don't want your wedding photos to be of someone you don't recognize. lol Like MarieSam and Christie said, it's more about accentuating your natural beauty AND putting that extra icing on your wedding day. That "oomf" factor. You wanna look like a bride and brides look like they did a lil' somethin-somethin extra with themselves. For someone like you, I'd say mascara, a soft tinted gloss and maybe a lil' bronzer or subtle blush for definition. It will look completely natural BUT still like theres more YOU to your face that day. Photos can wash people out, especially photos in the sun or using flash, so you just want to emphasize, not overwhelm. Do some trials and see what you like. Even specify when you go in that you want a "light and natural" look. Pro's will know how to handle that and it definitely doesn't take a lot of money to get your own tiny stockpile of make up must-haves. You can keep them for a year and use them on just those special occasions. Your FH might be suprised how natural make up can look and he just might shock himself by liking it. If it weren't your wedding day (a time that should be magical for both of you) I'd tell ya not to worry about what he says. My guy isn't big on make up and always says that, but then when I come out all done up he's gushing. Men have no idea what they like, so don't let 'em tell ya any different. lmao I think they just have an idea in their head of make up having to be full on Bourbon St. prostitute looking or something.

Quote: Originally Posted by YoursTruly Savannah, what is going on? Did Nick truly pick Phyllis over Sharon? I thought Sharon won her husband back. Maybe Nick will be the father of the baby??!! I hate that Pug nosed Phyllis too!! It ain't over girl..keep watchin! Trust me, if this was it, I couldn't stand it either. I loathe that skank. blah. SHE's GOIN DOWN!

Quote: Originally Posted by JulieG Just tell us how, I will totally listen. I am so lost though, what is your connection to the show? I searched this thread and I didn't see anything. Sorry! Just saw this. Daniel Goddard (Cane) is a friend of mine. Some friends and I run his official fan site for him. Spoiler tiiiiime!! SPOILERS FOR WEEK OF 05/11/09 Paul proposes to Nikki Daniel goes to work undercover for the Feds Billy won't give up on Mac Karen makes a surprise return to GC Jill, Gloria and Jeff are in dire straits I'm excited about Karen...I don't think she's back long term, but Nia Peeples is brilliant and she ROCKED those last scenes of hers. I freakin cannot stand Neil's sanctimonious ass! I'm still waiting for Cane to demand an apology for the way they all treated him when they thought he had cheated on Lily (not that it will ever happen). Neil never once has mentioned it and now look at him. Ugh. Assmunch. lol

Quote: Originally Posted by KristinaM Wow Savannah that's pretty crazy.. especially about the kids! You can't make that one up! It's pretty cool to look back on it years later! Tell me about it. I've thought many, MANY times of just hitchin a flight back to SD an scouring the coastline for this chick. hahaha

Quote: Originally Posted by mummergirl it's probably nothing ... seems like everyone with a cold lately is "suspected swine flu" ... there have been suspected cases in philadelphia too but none confirmed as far as i know. working in hospitals, i'm sure it's hard not to be extra concerned, but in your line of work you are already well-schooled in how to avoid contagions. keep your immune system strong, take precautions, and i'm sure you'll stay healthy! And please remember....it's dangerous to be sure; but it's the flu. You guys are adults with presumably healthy immune systems. There is no reason to panic...it's the flu! A bad ass version, but still flu.

Quote: Originally Posted by jmiranda Answer: Billy Madison Quote: "Say hello to my little friend" Scarface "Can I borrow your underpants for ten minutes?"

Quote: Originally Posted by Erika J Wedding Crashers Next Quote: "Big Gulps , Huh. Welp, have a nice day" Dumb and Dumber? This is from a movie that is like the freakin anthem for my generation. lol "Can I borrow your underpants for ten minutes?"

My first...as I find stuff, ofcourse it will change a thousand more times. Not to mention, I still need The Dress, lol.

Oooo, I'm out the door right now! You know Wally World is like my personal Disneyland. lol

My best advice to you is simple; keep looking. There are LOTS of places that offer a beautiful setting, but are mid-range price. Depending upon what your "must haves" are, you can definitely find somewhere that will be more economical for your guests and likely meet your criteria. There's "cheap", which you want to avoid, obviously, but then theres always places that are more affordable. Just don't assume you have to go for the 5 stars, or even 4's. Especially when it comes to more family friendly resorts, the prices tend to stay lower. Just keep looking. Get a list going and save it..write notes about each places pro's and con's and start a file on your pc with photos of each so you can go back and compare as you find them. And lastly, GET A TA!! They are great when they know the region better than you and you can give them your criteria. That knocks YOUR work in half having someone else on the case! Good luck!

Well, this should be easy enough. We're paying for our own. lmao Other than the welcome dinner, this is all us.

Quote: Originally Posted by svetayasofiya Great thread idea! I am not in such a rush to book like everyone else here seems to be. I thought DW were supposed to relieve the pressure of local weddings and having to book everything one year in advance! Anyway....... I am reluctant to book my wedding without travel pricing out because if the resort I want is too expensive I will go elsewhere. To secure a date with the WC at a resort, is there money involved? 2010 wedding packages aren't even out yet so I don't know how people can be booking dates. It's rare that a resort has more than a 10% increase from one year to the next; thats why peeps are ok with estimating what they can afford for a venue based on previous year's pricing. You can't go in blind, thats for sure. You have to have some idea of what type of place you can afford, then work from there. Anyway.... I am planning a Feb 2010 wedding and the resort of choice does up to 6 weddings a day. I would like to think that that many weddings already occurring before I am willing to book the trip in August / September is highly unlikely. And if they are all booked, I am fairly flexible with my dates (week before or week after). It's all good. Got a West Coast attitude here. BC transplant living in Montreal. See, thing is its quite common for the resorts to book wedding dates a year in advance. So regardless of how the individual couple may feel about not being rushed, if you have a true preference in terms of resort or even SEASON, sometimes you need to be proactive to ensure you get your foot in the door. I've seen so many brides want a date (or even a month) and end up having to go with something else because they waited not knowing the resort would allow them to reserve. Maybe it's job related, or something to do with when your family can most easily travel...getting it done sooner rather than later is just something a lot of people HAVE to do to make things work. So, if you're flexible enough not to care whether it's high season or low, spring, summer, winter or fall....then ofcourse you can be a little more lax about booking. Even with packages not being out yet, many resorts will note your name in their scheduling calendars so that when prices ARE available and they are open to booking, they have a point of reference in terms of which couples expressed interest first. It's worth looking into if you have a resort(s) that you are really wanting.

Ann, I can just see it now.."Confessions of a Quad-Mom: How To Potentially Scar Your Children For Life, But Save Yourself" hahahaha!