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Yes, only three hats left. We bought them by the dozen, but only had 21 men. And I know, I loved the coolie things!

Quote: Originally Posted by Abbie wow, gorgeous pics by matt, as usual, and the poem made me cry! such a beautiful way to include your mom. thanks, Abbie. that's really sweet. the poem made me cry, too. still does...every time. but it was the only time I cried all night...I was inordinately proud of myself. Quote: your dress was fantastic! did you have it made? I did! And believe it or not, it's hemp-silk! I was thinking I didn't really want a white dress, and found this designer in Seattle who hand-dyes all her own silk. She modified one of her designs for me, and then I modified it a bit more when I did the fittings. I think I'm going to cut it off at the knees and make a (fancy) sun-dress out of it...maybe even wear it to the AHRs we have yet to plan. =)

Quote: Originally Posted by Morgan The cermeony looked like it wasa so unique. Did the guests throw stones in the water in the middle? I love all the interaction. The ceremony was certainly different...lol. I'm glad that comes through! I think we were just trying to make it as "us" as possible, and to reflect our definition of marriage. The stone-throwing ceremony is an ancient Celtic tradition that we found, and really liked because A) His mom's side is Irish, and it allowed everyone to participate. This was the blessing: May you both be blessed with the strength of heaven, The light of the sun and the radiance of the moon The splendor of fire, The speed of lightning, The swiftness of wind, The depth of the sea, The stability of earth, And the firmness of rock. After which, our guests threw the stones into the sea. Quote: Why is he wearing a picture frame? Watching the slideshow made me want to see a video. It looks like you did so many cool things with the ceremony. You know, we didn't have a videographer...in some ways it makes me a bit sad that I don't have everyone on tape, but we're not the type of people who watch home movies. In fact, we stick them away and pretty much never look at them again. lol. The picture frame was actually a prop for my vows. It's a postcard of the first painting that Van Gogh ever did of his living quarters, which he painted, he says, because it was the first time he'd ever felt he was home. I bought that postcard years ago, vowing to hang it up in the first place that made me feel like that. Needless to say, I never hung it up. When I realized it was the person that makes the "home," I knew that it had to be hung up on Mark. =) That was sorta the gist of my wedding vow, and I told the story and hung it around his neck. Of course, it just made him look like Flava Flav. Quote: There are also so many awesome pictures of guests. I love the kids asleep on the floor. Yeah, Matt was great about this. We actually told him that it was actually more important for him to take pics of them than of us, as we didn't think we'd ever have that many people who are important to us together in one place, with an amazing photographer there. He totally met the challenge. =) And the kids are actually on beds...one of the awesome things about the Beach Club is they had beach beds that anyone could crash on at any time. I didn't take advantage of them...but I should have!

Quote: Originally Posted by roo66 your wedding looked wonderful.i can say hand on heart you looked the happiest bride and groom i have ever seen.The man who walked you down the aisle looked a really sweet guy,his face in your photos is full of expression and love.your dress lookes very pretty to.Im sure you both will be very happy . that is so, so sweet of you to say! i guess we were (and still are) pretty darned happy. that was my grandfather walking me down the aisle., and I think those pictures may sum him up better than any I've ever seen -- he really is one of the kindest people I've ever known (and my hubby is right up there with him!). cheers!

I have a few more very random items up for grabs. FREE: Blank place cards, pack of 50. Just pay shipping. (Cards are ~3.75" wide x 3" tall, white, made to fold and be tented on a table. Item description reads: Pre-scored cards for a perfect fold every time!) Canvas low-profile hats, stone color: 3 for $5 (we paid $2.50 each), plus shipping. These were one of the most-used items in the OOT bags... We intended them for the guys since we gave pashminas to the girls, but the girls stole the hats whenever the boys weren't wearing them. =) They look like this: Cooling neck-ties: 2 for $5 (normally $9 each), plus shipping These were a hit for older guests (I put them in the bags of my grandparents, his parents, aunts, uncles, etc.) and for people who weren't as good at keeping cool in the heat. We suggested people wear them on day-trips, especially to the jungle of Coba. Just soak them in water for about 30 minutes, and then they keep you cool all day. We have two left, in the neutral tan color. Here's a pic of other varieties, or go to Polar-Products.com - cooling vests, cool ties, and other personal cooling products for more info. PM me if you're interested or have any questions!

Quote: Originally Posted by Heather007 So the starfish are gone then? ~~ Yes, sorry! Everything is gone. I have a few more (very) random items that I'll be posting shortly, but no more starfish. Sorry!

Hey, anything for a Queens girl! (we just left Astoria for the West Coast.) Matt's just a great guy, and you'll love working with him.

have you thought about using something like this, and just stringing them together for one long rectangle-like effect? You can find them online here: 12in Square Glass Bowls

Here they are! A few random notes before you start, so you have some idea of what you're looking at: - We got ready together in the little room/suite upstairs from the beach club. We really were writing name cards and cutting up menus and writing our vows in the 4 hours before the wedding. - Yep, that's Mark ironing his suit on the bathroom counter since there didn't seem to be an ironing board in sight. - I only wanted one ring (engagement ring is also wedding ring), so that picture that looks like he's putting a ring on my finger? He's actually taking it off so we could use it for the ceremony, lol. - I had two smaller bouquets, rather than one large one, and pinned to each was a locket -- one with photos of my parents, both of whom have passed away, and one with photos of his grandparents. When I got to the end of the aisle, I gave one bouquet to my grandparents and one to his parents so that they knew the missing family members were still part of the ceremony. - Ceremony: The reason you'll see so many people holding the mic is because it was officiated by two old friends, included a couple of brief readings, and then we asked 4 different married couples -- who've been married for anywhere from 4 to 67 years -- to give advice on love/marriage, and then ask us to promise to follow it. This was our symbolic way of showing our belief that marriage is a covenant with our community as much as it is one between the two of us. Of course, this was also why the ceremony ended up going much longer than we intended! - Dancing: We scheduled a salsa lesson for post-cocktails/pre-dinner. It was nothing like what we were expecting, but it was a hoot! (Especially the part where the male teacher told the men to do a move and really "enjoy" their women. "Enyoy her," he said. This is still a thing...I can't count the number of times in a week that Mark now tells me to "enyoy" something. lol.) - The poem at the end: this is really personal, and one of the reasons that I hesitated to make this slideshow public. (But I know how much you all love the pictures!) It was written by my mother when I was a little girl, and so my best friend read it as the "toast," a way to have my mother's words there even if she couldn't be there herself. - Oh, and yes, there was totally a trampoline there! I'm only bummed that I didn't get to play on it like everyone else. Anyway, that's it for my editor's notes. Here's the slideshow...enyoy it! del Sol Photography Wedding Photojournalism

Hey, cool. Starfish and keychain clips gone. That's everything...until my next whirl of purging activity! (Have a few more odds and ends here, just waiting for me to post them.)

In case anyone was interested, I also just updated the review and added the website of the dress designer. Check out her "bridal" selection to see some surprising, yet awesome, dresses.

I'll post the link the slideshow, I promise! I just need to get the boy's permission to share his lovely face with all of you.

Quote: Originally Posted by Kat81 BLAH I hate Cilantro as well. I LOVE salsa though and it is soooo hard to find a good salsa here in Texas without gobs of it. Anyway, Back to Topic... great review and I love your dress. I'm always so happy to find others who feel this way about the bad, bad herb. =) thanks for the comments about the dress! Forgot to mention that I'm planning to cut it off at the knees and keep it as a (fancy) sundress. Hopefully, I can even get this done in time for the post-wedding party we're throwing in PA and wear it to that!

It makes me so sad that I don't like cilantro, as my two most favorite kinds of food use it liberally. (Indian and Mexican.) I want to like it so badly!!! You know, it's funny. The cilantro thing was the closest I ever got to a "bridezilla" moment...and one of my friends had even predicted that if it happened, it would be the closest I came. LOL. Mostly it bothered me, I think, because I was so starving and desperate for food that I was incensed that I couldn't eat it when it was placed in front of me!

Food and drink: Ana y Jose Beach Club Grade: A The food at Ana y Jose was one of the things that sold me on the place. I’m a New Yorker, and a bit of a foodie, and this was important. Other than a cilantro debacle (mentioned below), all was incredible and our guests were amazed. The tortilla soup was divine (they made a vegetarian version and I would eat it every night if I could), and the lobster…grilled with lime and a touch of tequila…was out of this world. Best part of the sit down dinner? The waiters brought an entire table’s worth of plates out at once, stood behind the recipient until everyone was ready, then placed the food on the table in one quick swoop. Nice. As for the drinks, they were strong and amazingly tasty. Tamarindo margaritas were a specialty of the house, and we took full advantage! Nopalitas: Soup: Lobster: Ana y Jose Coordinator: Jackie Grade: A-/B+ Everything that night looked incredible, and that’s all because of Jackie. She was wonderful at making sure so many of the things I asked for worked out well. There was no question that everything looked amazing—no question at all. Note: Because they host so many events and Jackie is the only coordinator, she can be relatively slow to respond to emails right up until about a month before your wedding. But then they come fast and furious. Jackie was great at taking our ideas and translating them into reality.…but due partially to our lack of organization (attention went first to moving cross-country, second to a sick pet, third to the wedding plans) and partially due to the fact that she left at 9:15 on the night of the wedding itself, certain things didn’t quite get done the way we’d hoped. Below are the reasons that the grade is not as stellar as it could be. I only had two dietary requests: no nuts (for our allergic guests), and no cilantro in the dishes but served instead in small dishes on the side. (To some of us weirdos with wonky taste receptors, cilantro actually tastes like soap and is a sure way to kill a dish!) There was cilantro in almost all of the appetizers during cocktail hour, which I didn’t notice because I was too busy talking with everyone. But then the very first dish that appeared on the tables, a nopalitos (cactus) salad, was chockablock with cilantro. The solution? To go around asking guests whether they “liked” cilantro, and those who didn’t would get another salad, which had no chopped cilantro but had still been marinating in it. I’m putting this under Jackie’s grade as I feel that it’s the job of the coordinator to be on top of details like this. I was not a picky or fussy bride…in fact, this was one of my ONLY requests and it went forgotten. The other issue had to do with the fact that we ran late. That was totally our fault! But since Jackie left at 9:15, there was no one left to talk to people to keep them on the later schedule. There was no one to coordinate with the band, to ask for dessert to be served, to take care of any issues, which meant that I did this all myself. (We didn't have a wedding party, so I couldn't really ask anyone to have done this for me...) I would much rather have spent time chatting it up with our peeps than running around through the sand to make sure that our peeps were happy. Yes, Jackie left with people in charge. But mostly these people seemed as if they were there to answer my questions, rather than coordinate. And since that’s what a coordinator is supposed to do (right?? Was I expecting too much??), it felt like this was an area that was lacking. Outside Vendors Cupcakes: Turtle Bay Bakery Grade: A+ We got our cupcakes from Turtle Bay Bakery in Akumal (see my other review), who made enough for everyone to take home. We got three types: limon, tres leches, and Mexican chocolate. People couldn’t stop raving, and hubby and I fell in love with the proprietors of Turtle Bay, who couldn’t have been more friendly and helpful and accommodating and just overall awesome. We gave them the cupcake boxes we’d brought so people could bring their cupcakes back to the hotel with them, and they even tied little matching ribbons around the box lids. Photographer: Matt Adcock Grade: beyond expectation Really, Matt, everyone on here sings your praises and they’re right to do so. We had an incredible time working with you, and we like to think we maybe made a friend that night. Matt was friendly, professional, and he and Diego managed to be everywhere at once. Our one request was that they get as many pictures of friends and family as possible instead of concentrating on us, as we didn’t know when we’d next have such an amazing pair of photogs and so many people important to us all in one place all at once. The two went far beyond and worked their butts off all night long. We ended up with amazing photos of not just us but also our best friends and family. Most photo credit below to Matt and Diego, with a few filled in from friends. My only regret was not asking them to take a group shot of everyone…but that’s my fault, not theirs! Flowers: Vanessa Jaimes Grade: B+ Vanessa ended up doing our huppah, my bouquet and hair pin, the boy’s bout, stalks of orchids for each table, and the bamboo/orchid/ribbon stakes that were used as decoration for the aisle, the cocktail hour, and at dinner. The flowers themselves were beautiful. Gorgeous. They just weren’t always what we asked for, and I think that’s largely due to a language barrier. Bamboo stakes: Bouquet: The bamboo stakes were amazing…because they were something she had used before, shown us pictures of, and we then requested. The bout and hairpins were easy to get right because they were just single flowers. But the bouquet had flowers in it that I’d never requested, and despite numerous emails back and forth she never really seemed to understand what I was asking for. (Simple bouquet of green cymbidium and white dendrobium orchids.) And despite numerous emails back and forth about what we’d like the huppah to look like (simple brown bamboo poles, white canvas on top) she somehow forgot and wound floofy tulle around the poles. Looked fine, but not what we’d discussed. As I said, it was beautiful, and I’m a pretty laid back person so it didn’t really bug me too much. But if you’re super-detail oriented, you’re going to really want to go over and over and over the specifics and then check them on the day of. Dress: Wai Ching Alterations: Madame Paulette (NYC) Grade: B Grade: A (Didn't know where else to put this random review, as it really is a vendor review!) Ultimately, I loved this dress. It didn’t start out that way. I really had trouble finding a dress I liked...they were all just so white, lol. But I found this amazing designer, Chrissy Wai Ching (Wai-Ching Clothing), who has incredible vision, was willing to use hemp-silk (!) at my request, and who hand-dyes all her own fabric -- the colors are just stunning. Her prices were also so much more reasonable than so many of the designer dresses I'd seen. She had a design that was beautiful but not really my style, so we did a lot of back-and-forth emailing and she came up with a modified version that I loved. But the fitting was hurried (during a short visit to her studio when I was briefly in town) and the end result didn’t really fit or flatter me at all. At. All. The seams were uneven, there were lumps where there shouldn’t have been, and later I even discovered that some of the fabric had been glued rather than sewn. (!!!) But the design was so pretty, the silk so gorgeous, that my friends convinced me to find a tailor who could make it fit the way it should. That’s exactly what the amazing seamstress at Madame Paulette did. I was hesitant to do a real “bridal” fitting, since I was trying to save money, but it really was worth it. Front: Back: Side: Transportation: Paradise Tours Grade: I can’t easily grade this one. Please read below. We used the same transportation company to pick up our guests at the airport (ended up being very cost effective, and quite organized this way), to go on two separate tours, and to transport almost every single one of our 48 guests to and from the Beach Club. The proprietor, Stuart, is a Brit and incredibly nice. We met with him when we first got to town and hammered out all the details, which was a really smart thing to do -- that way, we all felt comfortable about what was going on. And I hate to admit it, but not having a language barrier was REALLY helpful. (My Spanish fluency is middling, at best.) The airport transportation worked out nicely, with just a few hitches due to airline delays, mislabeled flight info, etc. It was cost-effective, and I highly recommend this route if you have a number of different guests arriving on different days at different times. Stuart was communicative, and even able to tell us why our family didn’t arrive when we were expecting them to. Tours: We used Paradise for both a small group outing to Coba (there were 14 of us) and for a slightly larger (25 person) trip to Tulum on our wedding day, which was also the summer solstice. The trip to Coba was good…the driver was helpful…but there was one large snag. Stuart was supposed to provide water, juice, soda, etc. in a big cooler, along with breakfast pastries, so we told everyone not to have breakfast. He got the pastries…but forgot to give them to the driver! Hence, a van full of starving people and a driver with no cash. Stuart was very accommodating, said that he would lower the amount he was charging per hour and we could put the rest toward stopping at a market and buying food/drinks. We did, but it was a much bigger PITA than I was prepared for! The trip to Tulum was a bit more coordinated, with water on board and ready for everyone. Wedding: We coordinated organization for just about everyone to be picked up from their respective hotels and dropped off in Tulum. But unfortunately, one of the drivers disappeared with no notice (apparently they found him in bed somewhere in Playa del Carmen, totally ignoring his job, his cell phone, everything!), leaving some of our guests stranded at the wedding until MUCH later that night. Everyone was pretty easygoing about it, and Stuart was incredibly contrite and – again – very quick to adjust payment in response. But it was just a glitch that couldn’t be mentioned. Thus, no grade for this company as it was a bit of an unusual situation. Most important for us was their flexibility, their ability to figure out a solution, and the fact that they MORE than made up for the shortcomings. EDIT: I also forgot to mention that in order to fix the problem, the amazing Stuart ended up working 15 hours on his day off, trying to make sure everyone (ultimately) ended up where they needed to go. I guess that's it. I'll try to remember to post the link to the del Sol website slideshow, if you all still need more pics. =)

Bottom line, in case you don't want to read the novella: We had an amazing time, in a gorgeous magazine-worthy setting, surrounded by our favorite people on earth. My hubby and I decided to forgo the AI route. We loved the idea of going down to Mexico, and really loved the Yucatan peninsula, but weren’t as keen on doing the all-inclusive thing. It certainly would have been leagues easier, but we just couldn’t find what we were looking for at the AIs -- they just didn’t feel like “us”, so we branched out a bit and are SO glad we did! So I'm going to do two separate reviews: everything at the wedding, and then our accommodations/welcome dinner elsewhere, since they really deserve separate treatment. We looked at countless locations, but ultimately decided that Ana y Jose Beach Club in Tulum was our ideal spot. It’s breathtakingly beautiful, and isolated enough that you don’t feel there are hordes of strangers in Speedos watching as you say your vows. We had an incredible time and pretty much everyone who came couldn’t stop telling us that they’d had an incredible time, too. (They all certainly had a more relaxing time than we did!) Below are reviews for vendors, location, even my dress. Please forgive if it goes on too long......I just wanted to make sure that anyone who wanted/needed the info had it, as I know there aren't really many (any?) lengthy reviews of AyJ on here. Location: Ana y Jose Beach Club Grade: A++ Multiple guests told us that it felt as if they were inside the pages of Travel & Leisure or Conde Naste Traveler. The beach beds, the set-up, the vows under a leaning palm…it really is gorgeous. Granted, the venue has some wonky policies, such as requiring a minimum of 120 people or $4000 to reserve the space for yourselves (and not keep it open for beachcombers, sunbathers, and diners). We certainly couldn't afford this -- it would have almost doubled the amount we spent! We were worried about it not feeling private, but our worries were totally unnecessary. After about 5:00 there wasn’t really anyone there… they don’t get much in the way of evening visitors, so we really didn’t find that to be an issue and we pretty much had the place to ourselves all night. The space on the beach is gorgeous: There are three spots available for dinner/cocktails: the palapa, the beach beds, and underneath the grape tree canopy. We choose to do cocktails among the beach beds, and then dinner under the grape trees (max 70 people here, although there’s room for many more under the palapa). This worked out really well for us, felt quite intimate but we didn’t feel like we were on top of one another. Only thing to remember: votives won’t stay lit in this breeze. (doh! We brought our votives from the States so as to save money on rentals…fat lotta good it did us!) Our cocktails set up (sorry, I thought I had some pics from a wider vantage point!!): Our dinner set up: We loved this. As someone told us later, it made it feel a little magical...in her words, kinda like "fairy lights." (more to come.....)

We didn't have a wedding party. We had two old friends (one mine, one his) officiate the ceremony, and we had a number of people participate in the ceremony itself. But really, most of the people who spent the time and money to come were people who could/should have been part of the wedding "party" in some form or another. So we decided that the whole group of 50 was our wedding party...no attendants...and every single person there signed the ketubah or wedding contract. Worked out perfectly. =) I don't think anyone was terribly hurt by not participating, and it was much less hassle and stress for us.

Quote: Originally Posted by nicholch Do you still have the match books? Nope, matchbooks are gone. Starfish still available... Quote: Originally Posted by Heather007 Quick question, how many starfish do you have? I'm totally interested in them. Thanks!!!! Sorry...I'd counted the starfish up and just assumed I'd posted the number. There are 72 of them. 72 starfish. (I'll amend the first post to say so...whoops!!)

CD holders, cupcake boxes, matchbooks, and first-aid kits taken. =) hrm, guess I should probably update the main post, too. ok, done!

Ribbon and fans just spoken for. Thanks, gals!! I'll update as items are no longer available...

Hi All, I've been out of the loop lately, but still intend to post reviews, pics, etc. (Moving across country the same week as your wedding will totally throw a girl for a loop.) In the meantime, I've got a little pile of random stuff that I need to get rid of! (Prices below don't include shipping, which I won't know until I've mailed the items.) EVERYTHING SPOKEN FOR...THANKS! - White finger starfish (bought for escort cards but decided not to use) -- 2" - 3", worked perfectly for invitations, etc. 72 of them, $10 + shipping - Mini key-chain clips/carabeeners from OTC. Packet of 1 dozen, $1 plus shipping (can find OTC description here: Mini Clip Key Chains ) - Raffia fans from OTC, 9 of them (random number, I know, but thought someone must have need for them!). $2 + shipping - Satin-faced ribbon, 5/8", 50 yards each of aqua and chocolate (bought 100 yards of each, used less than half.) $5 for both + shipping - Paperboard CD cases. We were going to make CDs for everyone, and then had to drop the idea at the last minute when we didn't have time. 30 of them for $5 + shipping. - J&J First aid kits, 2 of them. Free, just pay shipping. - Cupcake boxes! Yes, we ordered enough cupcakes for our guests to take some home afterwards. It turned out really well. The boxes are chocolate brown, matte finish, recycled paper. There are about 40 to 45 boxes left, $8 + shipping for all of them. Here's a pic of the sign/boxes, courtesy of Matt Adcock (the bakery added the ribbons, so those aren't included): - Matchbooks. Minimum order was 50 but we only needed 28. Stuck them in with the travel candles so our guests had something to light them with. =) White glossy matchbooks, aqua-foil sand dollar imprint. $5 + shipping for 22 matchbooks.

I just tried on the short version of it...didn't work so well for me. I'm a DD, and wasn't quite spilling out of it, but my chest was big enough that the waist just hung there instead of curving in like it should. =) I was totally bummed, since I loved the style.

Hi all, I'm wondering if anyone has contact information for the wedding coordinator at Grand Palladium Riviera Maya? A quick search hasn't yielded anything remotely helpful! Thanks in advance!

Quote: Originally Posted by chellebella try contacting Yuritzia at [email protected] and copy her manager Paloma at [email protected] good luck! Thanks!! Looks like her email had changed (I had [email protected]). Appreciate the help!!

Hi all, I have a question: Some of our guests are staying at the GBP, but we are not. When I first starting looking in the area, I was contacted by Yuritzia. Now that we're at t-minus-3-weeks and counting (eep!!), I wanted to get in touch with her to ask about dropping by the resort to leave our OOT bags for our guests. But when I sent an email asking about this, it was returned! Could someone post or PM me with an updated email address for a coordinator who could arrange this for me? Thank you!!!!!