we order dh's online. it's tungsten and cost $6.50 because we bought it from a wholesale site- Wholesale Sterling Silver, Titanium, Gemstone & Stainless Steel Jewelry, Buy Silver Rings, Bracelets, Chains, Gold Earrings, Pendants & Necklaces Online. we actually bought 5 so he could choose and then we bought a backup of the one he chose just in case. if this ring cost less than $10.. think about how much money jewelers are making off of each ring they sell- nuts! here is a thread about it- http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t11796