Quote: Originally Posted by Anna83 I don't really know the bride well enough to ask her. It is an at home wedding, but they are having it on the beach. I don't think we're going to the actual wedding, just to the reception. I definately wouldn't wear a white top. I bought the white pants a while ago and haven't had a chance to wear them yet, and I really want to. I think it depends on the crowd and where you're from. Around here, pants are a no, and white pants are definitely a no. IMO when in doubt, err on the side of caution and wear a dress.