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Stephanie, you absolutely did the right thing by going over there & you continue to show your mother that you truly care about her & her wellbeing. Hopefully, this incident was enough to show her that he isn't really someone she should have in her life if he would scare her to that point. I hope it works out & just know that you're in my thoughts!

Love it Lizz. Glad that it worked out & you got the one you really LOVE!

Everything looks perfect! Love your dress & your BM's dresses & ofcourse the shoes & the colors. Funny, I ordered the same shoes from my mom last week. Did you get them from Avon?? Your OOT bags look great as well. You did a wonderful job with everything. Can't wait till you get back to share all of the details & the pics. Now have the time of your life!!!

I agree with Erica. I know its easier said than done but try to relax. It seems like they've re-organized the staff & maybe they'll get it together within the next few days & give you the info that you requested. I know it must be frustrating, but try calling the new WC again & let her know what you need. Explain that this is stressful & you don't think you're getting the service that you deserve, especially with your wedding 29 days away. If you have to, find out who her boss/supervisor is. Maybe you can call/email them as well. Also, do you have pics/ideas of the things that you want? If so, definitely email those to her & see if she can give you price quotes based on what you want. As long as you have an idea about what you want, I think you'll be fine. You can always work based on the ideas that you already have. Definitely try to stay positive. It will all work out in the end.

Wow, those are totally cute & different. Hmmm...$25 bucks I'm not sure if I would get them. Maybe if it were a set with a tank top included I wouldn't mind. But I guess its the thought/idea that makes them more appealing. Under normal circumstances, I don't think I'd get them, but as a bride-to-be I say if you want them, go for it. It's your wedding, it's all about you!!! How can anyone dispute special purchases? LOL

That is just too cute! Talk about bringing back memories....

Sorry for your loss Crystal. I will definitely keep you & your family in my prayers. Travel safely.

YAY...Great news. Now we don't have to beat anyone up.

Ohhhh....Ahhhh....Absolutely beautiful on you!!! Love it!

These came out great! Your mess indicates that you worked long & hard on these! LOL...Good job tho! And it only took you 8 hours?? How many did you do?

I've watched every season & I love it. I don't know why but I do. I was so excited when it started up again this season & saw that they were all gonna be in 1 house. Now I especially can't wait to see who's hooking up with who!

WOW....Beautiful, beautiful, beautiffffffullllllll....Did I say beautiful You look great in it. Now I see why you just up & bought it! Excellent choice.

Thanks for the pics Cherie. Everything looked soo great. From all of those smiles you all look like you had the best time. I loved your dress & your hair and I love how that blue looks in the pics. I'm glad you brought up the wind. I was thinking of wearing my hair down but I think I'm having 2nd thoughts. For some reason, I wasn't thinking about wind. Also loved the hoopa. It was very pretty. Oh, quick question. I really liked your sand ceremony set. Where did you get that from? Did you get it home ok? Thanks again!!!

Happy Birthday! I hope you enjoy your day!!

Congrats Paula. Hope you have the time of your life. Everything that you did turned out great. Also, LOVE your dress-it is gorgeous & the BM's dresses too!!!

I jumped on a stuffed animal because I'm a Ninja! I am dying right now reading these!!!

Sorry it didn't work out. I don't know why they would give you such a hard time especially if you were going to buy another dress from them. That really sucks!!! Do you need us to go kick someone's butt? I can't fight-at least I don't think so, but for a fellow bdw'er I'd be willing to try. Don't they know the bride to be is supposed to get her way allll the time

You've definitely got a problem....You can't decide & neither can I. LOL... They really looked great on you & you looked like you had fun. But, I think my faves were #5, #15, #20 & #22. Which was your favorite? Which did you just not want to take off? Which are you still thinking of right now

I was cleaning out my email inbox & came across these 2 packing checklists. The first one is a Honeymoon Packing checklist & the second is a Destination Wedding Packing checklist. Maybe they'll be helpful when its time to pack. List #1 Packing: Master Honeymoon Checklist When it comes to packing, you can never be too prepared, right? Not so! Tote too much, and an unwieldy bag will bog you down. Take too little, and you end up buying what you didn't bring. The solution? Our bare-bones checklist will keep you covered for emergencies and help you sail through your honeymoon with ease. (Note: Buy *travel-sized* items whenever possible.) Must-haves: Airline tickets or e-ticket confirmation Passport/visas/driver's license Credit cards (take only those you'll need) Hotel/theater reservation fax confirmations Traveler's checks Two sets of photocopies of all of the above, plus a photocopy of related medical and/or trip insurance coverage and prescriptions (carry one set with you, leave one in the hotel room) Phone numbers for your doctor, house/cat sitter, and credit card companies (in case your cards are lost or stolen) Prescription medicine (in the original bottle) Contraception Travel locks (combination lock recommended -- no key to lose!) and ID tags for luggage (inside and out) Camera Her Stash For a Week (tweak for destination, activities, season): 1 pair jeans or khakis (for cold airports and the plane) 1 light jacket or pullover (take one that can be tied around the waist or stuffed in a backpack) 1 nice sundress 1 little black dress 1 cardigan (for chilly restaurants) 4 play shirts (T-shirts, tank tops, short-sleeve button-downs) 2 pairs shorts 2 swimsuits (bikini for the beach, one-piece for water sports) 1 swimsuit cover-up 1 pair walking shoes/sandals 1 pair evening shoes/sandals 1 evening purse Extra socks and underwear Bras (strapless and otherwise) Accessories (scarves and jewelry to "stretch" your wardrobe) His Stash For a Week (tweak for destination, activities, season): 1 pair jeans or khakis 1 pair nice slacks 1 light jacket or pullover (take one that can be tied around the waist or stuffed in a backpack) 4 play shirts (T-shirts or short-sleeve button-downs) 2 pairs shorts 2 polo or button-down short-sleeve shirts 1 sports jacket (for nicer restaurants) 1 swimsuit 1 pair walking shoes/sandals 1 pair lace-ups Extra socks and underwear Pack Here -- Don't Buy There: Insect repellent (and anti-itch cream for the bugs that break through) Sunscreen and lip balm Sunglasses Sun hat or baseball cap Aloe vera Band-Aids Aspirin Antacid Antihistamine Diarrhea medicine Motion sickness medicine Tampons/pads (they can be hard to find outside the U.S. and are a non-negotiable must-have when you need them!) Paperback books (you can leave them in the hotel library once you've read) Deck of cards Canvas tote bag for beach or pool (also good for carrying souvenirs home) Guidebook Electrical converter/adapter Bathroom Basics: Travel-size toothpaste Toothbrushes Deodorant Cosmetics Make-up remover Cotton balls and swabs Comb/brush Hair gel/spray Nail file/clippers Shaving cream Razors Contact lens and re-wetting solution, storage case Hair accessories Optional Items (your hotel may provide): Shampoo and conditioner Body lotion Hair dryer Shower cap Alarm clock Handy Extras: Extra pair of glasses/contacts, asthma inhaler, and the like Ziplock bags (all sizes; use for packing wet swimsuits or protecting camera and film when it rains) Earplugs Sewing kit Shout Wipes (instant stain-treater towelettes) Anti-bacterial liquid or lotion Visine Waist pack (to keep money handy and in sight) Small backpack(s) for day excursions and impromptu picnics 1 pair old sneakers or Keds that can get wet or ruined (if you're traveling to the tropics) 1 pair workout sneakers and 2-3 workout outfits if you plan on visiting the resort's gym or jogging on the beach Swiss Army knife Compact umbrella or rain ponchos Leave Behind With Family or Friends: Your itinerary and hotel phone numbers Photocopies of your passport, credit cards, and traveler's check receipts A sealed copy of your wills, life insurance-policy numbers, and pertinent financial info List #2 Your Destination Wedding Packing Checklist TO CARRY ON Airline tickets or e-ticket confirmation Passports/visas/driver’s licenses Credit cards and ATM cards (take only those you’ll need) Hotel reservation confirmations Two sets of photocopies of all of the above (carry one set with you, leave one in the hotel room) Photocopies of medical and/or trip insurance coverage and prescriptions Phone numbers for your doctor, house/pet sitter, and credit card companies (in case your cards are lost or stolen) Prescription medicine (in the original bottle) Contraception Mini first-aid kit that includes Band-Aids, Aspirin, antacid, antihistamine, and diarrhea and motion sickness medicine Copies of all contracts and vendor contact sheets Jewelry, including wedding rings Change of clothes Your vows, if you’ve written them Wedding dress Veil Groom’s suit or tux IN YOUR CHECKED LUGGAGE: BAG #1 (CLOTHES AND ACCESSORIES) For the wedding: Special outfits for rehearsal dinner, goodbye brunch, and any scheduled activities Wedding night sleepwear Wedding makeup Wedding-day undergarments (undies, bustier, etc,) Wedding shoes Comfortable change of shoes for dancing Pantyhose (plus spare) Garter Tiara/headpiece Purse Wrap Crinoline/petticoat Groom accessories Something old Something new Something borrowed Something blue For downtime between festivities: Skirts, pants, and shorts Tees, tank tops, and blouses Bathing suits Beach wrap Sandals Sundresses Wraps and sweaters Exercise clothes and shoes Toiletries: Toothpaste Toothbrushes Deodorant Cosmetics Makeup remover Cotton balls and swabs Comb/brush Hair gel/spray Nail file/clippers Shaving cream Razors Contact lens and rewetting solution, storage case Hair accessories Hair dryer or straightening iron For your trip: Camera Film Extra batteries or memory cards Insect repellent Sunscreen Sunglasses Sun hat or baseball cap Aloe vera Electrical converter/adapter (if necessary) Tampons/pads Optional things (your hotel may provide): Shampoo and conditioner Body lotion Hair dryer (even if the hotel provides you may want to bring your own as most hotels’ are very small) Shower cap Alarm clock IN YOUR CHECKED LUGGAGE: BAG #2 (WEDDING ACCESSORIES) Attendant gifts Parent gifts Favors Welcome bags All welcome-bag contents (extra bags, extra tags, maps, snacks, weekend itineraries) CDs/music Cake topper Display photos Menus Programs Bathroom baskets Escort cards Signage Table decorations (disposable cameras, snapshots, etc.) Aisle runner Guest book Guest-book pens Ceremony accessories (unity candle, Kiddush cup, etc.) Ring-bearer pillow Special cake-cutting knife set (make sure your airline allows this) Thank-you notes to vendors Envelopes for vendor tips Fix-it kit: Extras of all materials used to make favors, welcome bags, and escort cards. Glue gun, double-sided tape, card stock, ribbon in your wedding colors, your guest list, etc.) Your wedding planning folder with all the details of your arrangements Any extra decorations LEAVE BEHIND WITH FRIENDS OR FAMILY Your itinerary and hotel phone numbers Photocopies of your passport and credit cards A sealed copy of your wills, life insurance-policy numbers, and pertinent financial info

Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!

Quote: Originally Posted by Kishalee Thanks all!! I am glad that SOMEONE knows something. The more people (again, my family making me nuts) tell me that they need to know information, the less I think that I know. Thanks again. I feel better now. I will call the wedding sales department and move from there. I am actually using Michelle at Liberty Travel. I think that she is swamped, but I just needed/wanted some kind of confirmation. A simple, "Ok. Your wedding is a go for oct 4th. Feel free to send out invitations now." No problem. Your concerns are perfectly understandable. You'll see that all of the past & future Riu brides are great and have learned so much from each other & no one ever has a problem sharing that info. Oh, make sure to go to the Jamaica section & you will see tons of posts about ROR. There's alot of info in them. Happy reading.

Ok, I'm gonna try to answer your questions in the order that you posted. As long as you got a confirmation from the Wedding Dept, you should be good. You're not going to lose anything because money isn't taken from you until you get there & meet with Chandlyn. When you meet with Chandlyn that is when you pay for your package, reception, decorations, etc. For your reception, you can contact Chandlyn and let her know which restaurant you would like to reserve & the time that you would like. She will let you know if its available. For now you can contact the Wedding Department just to re-confirm your date & time and make sure that it is available. Here is her contact information: Carolina Miranda Sales Wedding Coordinator Ocho Rios & Negril, Jamaica Weddings By Riu America's Division Phone: + (52) 984 877 23 20 Email: [email protected] Wedding Packages by Destination. Honeymoon Holidays. Weddings by Riu Once you do that & your date/time is confirmed, then send Chandlyn an email asking her about your reception. Here's her contact info: Chandlyn Edwards (876) 972 22 00 [email protected] All the ROR brides hear how busy Chandlyn because of the amount of weddings that she handles in one day. Because of that she is a bit slow to respond to emails, especially when your wedding date is far out. Once your date is near, she is very good about responding quickly. I think you should be fine as long as you confirm your date. I hope this helps!

Quote: Originally Posted by IrieBride08 Those are too cute! A great idea. I'll share another for the DIY bride who wants them already put together (minus the cute clip art!) At DollarTree Direct, you can buy these first aid kits in bulk on line for a dollar a piece (or $48 for 48 kits.) Here's the link! Quote: Originally Posted by StephanieMN Those are the ones that I got. The picture fits right on front. You ladies are the best. Thanks!!! My only problem is that I won't need that 48

Thanks sooo much for that great review. Everything really sounds like it was beautiful. I can't wait to see the pics of everything, especially your ceremony & reception decor. And wow, you used the DJ for an extra hour & didn't even use the music you brought That is very reassuring! Congrats again! Now bring on the pics!

Thanks sooo much for that great review. Everything really sounds like it was beautiful. I can't wait to see the pics of everything, especially your ceremony & reception decor. And wow, you used the DJ for an extra hour & didn't even use the music you brought That is very reassuring! Congrats again! Now bring on the pics!