Girl, i think you have the whole forum up in arms for you (rightly so). As everyone has said, the girl is trippin. And like many have said just ignore her. I personally would go a few steps farther and play the whole how pathetic she is card "oh, poor thing, you must really want to be at my wedding How pathetic you are, that you would try to get "even" like we use to do in the 3rd grade. I hope you really enjoy your trip, I hope all is well for you, good luck with all that your tryin to do." And then have a TON of fun on YOUR trip and at YOUR wedding. There is nothing she can do to you, even to try to ruin your day. Just let your all your girls and honey know and then erase it from your mind because she is nothing.