I am having a second ceremony and reception when we return. My 6 year old son (from previous marriage) says that he will feel "forgotten" if he isn't included. So, we are slipping away to Jamaica. We'd already planned the DW when my son told us this and I didn't want to change it. We are keeping it really small, 50 people, and ONLY our close friends and family.
I had a huge wedding the first time, 300 guests+12 BM and Groomsmen=4 FG, 1 RB, 1BR, 1BB. Most of which were my parents' friends and I refuse to do that again. I was so unhappy!