Ok ladies, perhaps it's just me. I LOVE gifts! This is the one time in your life when you get to make a list of things you want, and people actually get them for you. I have been happy to pick out and give a great gift to many of my friends. If it was for a bridal shower or baby shower, I enjoyed giving them something I knew they would love. I want the gifts! I want to play the cheesy games, eat the petit fors, and everything else. Even though Im having a dw, my bf, my sister, mom, and cousin are all coming from out of town to my shower. My aunt is throwing it and is already obsessed even though it's 3 months away. This is for your wedding, it's tradition, I say enjoy every minute of it - I know I will.