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Quote: Originally Posted by Alyssa i read this fact somewhere before but NJ has the most millionaires in relation to the population of the state than any other state in our country and yes most of them are in N. Jersey and in S. Jersey they are in Moorestown! I think a lot of the Philly pro sports players live in Moorestown. I remember seeing TO's house (when he was doing push ups in his front yard like a jackass) and it was ridiculous. But I have a feeling it will be North Jersey.

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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Welcome back! It sounds like you had a great time, with the exception of some family drama. I don't even want to ask, but seriously?!?! she had her rehearsal dinner at the same time you did? WTF?

It looks like you had so much fun. Your family is so cute!!! I can't wait to see more pics!! Was there any drama with your SIL? Edit: I just read your review, disregard SIL question.

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That's so great! Congrats

Quote: Originally Posted by LC_Rachel Now that I'm home again, I feel great. I love sitting back and not having this "wedding cloud" over my shoulders. I feel so free. haha I can't wait til the wedding cloud is gone!

Quote: Originally Posted by Lorilou yes, i'm freaking out too. I leave on the 10th so even though we have 1 month until the big day, I have only 24 more days until we leave. meaning I have to get the rest of the stuff done now. And my bro just had a baby so we are heading out of town this weekend to see them...meaning, none of the things on my list will get done. Oh well...eventually, they will. I'm leaving on the 10th too. I feel like every weekend is booked til then - 3 Phillies games, a Beef & Beer, a BDW lunch:), my bachelorette party, maybe a BD session, etc, etc. AAAHHH!!! I feel like I don't have the time to relax. But I took the day off work today to get stuff done, so I feel better.

I think it's cute and that necklace is fabulous!

Quote: Originally Posted by geology_rocks $80 is far cheaper than paying to go back again to get married! Can you scan your paperwork, email it to Chandlyn to get it there by the 30 day mark AND fed-ex it as well? I forgot about the scanning option. I think some brides in the past have scanned their documents and emailed them to Chandlyn and she was ok with that.

Kelly, mine is the same night! What bar are you going to?

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I saw this on MSN today...The Wife's Bill of Rights - Â* MSN Lifestyle: Men Preamble: We, the wives of America, love being married to the husbands of America. We know we have our faults, but with our ever-morphing roles these days, there's a lot of pressure on us to be superhuman. We care for our families, manage the home, keep ourselves attractive, and even bring home our shares of the bacon. We know we sometimes lash out, but we really do want to "live happily ever after" with you. Our mutual acknowledgment of these amendments can go a long way toward achieving that. Amendment I We have the right to dislike your buddies. We know it's important for you to have your guy friends, but you should know by now that we're not turned on by your stories of the good old days at college, your sexual exploits, or which relief pitcher the Red Sox should trade. Disappear for a while and be boys—it's OK, go chug beer and high-five—but please don't expect us to be happy when your friends come over and put their feet on our coffee tables or leave their beer cans on the floor. Amendment II We have the right to experience PMS in all its glory. Either give us our space or accept the consequences. We know it's unfair, but some of us just can't rein it in. You knew that before you married us. We may shout, cry, belittle, act irrationally. It lasts a few days each month, so please deal with it. Or even better: Bring home dinner, clear the dishes, and give us a big hug. Amendment III We have the right to demand you finish a household job. We're not your mothers, and we loathe having to act like them. If you wash the dishes, do them all and clean the sink, too. Don't just bag the trash, take it outside to the bin. If you start a load of laundry, put it in the dryer and fold it too. We don't like nagging any more than you like hearing it. Amendment IV We have the right to an honest answer to "What's wrong?" We admit guilt in this area too, but "Nothing" says nothing. If we ask, it's not because we're trying to make casual conversation. It's because we love you and need an honest answer. If there truly is nothing wrong, then ask why we think otherwise. Yes, this could open a can of worms, but remember when we dated and talked about everything? Amendment V We have the right to keep our secrets. Not marriage-ending ones, just small secrets we choose to hide from others. If we don't want to speak our age or share our true hair color or reveal the cheesy TV shows we watch in private, it's not your place to reveal them to our friends, your business partners, or your ex-girlfriends/wives. We're not asking you to lie for us, but we would appreciate your discretion. Amendment VI We have the right to clean air. You may think it's funny, masculine, or natural to pass gas anywhere and anytime you please, but when the smell drives us to gag, it's uncool. There is something inherently wrong in the relationship if you must walk over to us and fart, or if you intentionally set a bad example for the kids. We fart too, but we do so discreetly for a reason. You may not like our potpourri and scented candles, but they're infinitely better than toxic and flammable methane. Amendment VII We have the right to keep and bear tons of girly bathroom products. You have your tools; so do we. These items are expensive and to be used sparingly. It brings no joy to see our $15 bath bar shrunk down to the size of a quarter after two passes on your chest and legs. Amendment VIII We have the right to speak to our girlfriends every day. About whatever we want, whenever we want. Please don't eavesdrop or criticize. We know you're not that interested in gossip or psycho-analytical interpretations of why some people do what they do, so we turn to our like-minded female friends for instant gratification. Yes, we do talk about you—a lot. It helps us work through issues. This keeps us happy, sane and, usually, off your case. Amendment IX We have the right to flirt. Not the kind that makes you jealous, but the healthy practice of connecting with another person on a non-sexual level. Light banter is fun, quick-witted, and encouraging to our self esteem. It might even remind you of why you feel in love with us. And if it gets us a smoking deal on that new furnace or a free stay for the family at a million-dollar ski chalet, so much the better. Amendment X We have the right to foreplay. A fine bottle of wine, soft music, deep looks into each other's eyes, compliments, holding hands, cuddling—these are all forms of foreplay, and we insist on them. Please don't reach for our crotch or breasts and expect us to melt into a porn kitten. It didn't work when we met, it most certainly doesn't work now. Sure, we women are strong and independent, and appreciate an inspired quickie when the moment strikes, but we also have an inner soft spot the size of Texas that needs squeezing and cherishing. We appreciate you more when you think about how it feels to us rather than how it feels to you.

I found this: Paper Mate Liquid Paper Color Correction Fluid, Ivory at Office Depot. EDIT: Morgan beat me to it...lol!

Quote: Originally Posted by JamaicaBride062108 I would get some white out tape, so its not clumpy, and just re-do the area code. I like this idea!

So cute! I love it!!!

Quote: Originally Posted by becks I agree - tell her that you've become close over the last several months and she was your first thought. If it were me, I'd totally be touched! And if you're worried about her feeling like she needs to reciprocate, tell her that she doesn't and don't think twice about it. I was going to say the same thing!

Quote: Originally Posted by lucy106 Yeah! That is exciting! Are you in good shape? Hope you feel better! I feel like I have mostly everything done. My big thing is seriously trying to figure out how to pack it all.

AAAHHHH...my ticker is down to 1 month exactly. 1 month from today I will be getting married! I'm so excited!!!!!!!!!! I took a "sick" day today. I actually do feel crappy and am going to my doctor at 10:45 this morning. But it was more of an excuse to get a lot of little wedding things finished up. I've been taking pics as I go along, so I'll be posting my planning thread in the next few weeks.

I love it! So cute!

Quote: Originally Posted by carly Oh and I did buy a iron-on transfer with my new name! Hahahahaa, I guess I am cheesy! But yeah, I think Matt will think it's cool. I am like Mrs. Dxxxx? That is Matt's mom, not me! Weird, isn't it? I thought the same thing. I thought Mike may be weirded out by seeing Mrs. Axxxx on my butt, so I got "Mike's Wife" instead...lol!

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to the forum! We love Yari around here! Happy planning!!!