I would love to be able to pay for their dresses, but I have 8 BMs, so it would be way too much. When I asked my best friend Nicole to be in my wedding and told her it would the "most expensive wedding" she would ever be in, she so nicely said that she would be paying to go and buying a dress to wear whether she was a BM or not, so to think of it that way. That made me feel a lot better.
But, I did pick out dresses that were $120 to keep the costs down for them.