Quote: Originally Posted by Julesr Alright, the last update on this matter. So, I emailed everyone today to tell them another deposit is due on Tuesday. My BM called me tonight and said she could not do it. She just can't come up with the money. I was not surprised. She seemed really upset and really sad that she can't come and is going to miss my wedding, and I believe she is being sincere. So, I told her not to worry, I will come running home with a video and pictures for her to watch.
So, issue number 2 was do I ask someone else to stand in her place. Well, I decided to ask the other girl that I mentioned before. She said she is honored. She made a few jokes about it, but was totally kidding. So, in a sense my BM issues are resolved. Now, we can use the money towards the GM. I just read this entire thread, don't know how I missed it before... I'm so happy for you that everything is resolved. That sucks that your BFF won't be there, but at least you can pay for your GM and your other friend is so happy to be a BM. Things really did work out for the best!