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I was going crazy trying to think of something, but Mike said he really doesn't want to exchange gifts. So, I told him our wedding bands will be it. I'll buy his and vice versa. I think he said it because he knows how much I stress out trying to find the "perfect gift" and he's trying to take some of the stress off of me, which it really does!

I'm so glad it worked out and that you made them find a scale that worked!

Quote: Originally Posted by LaROR He has made it to Kuwait safely. He will be flying to Iraq tomorrow or Tuesday morning. I'm glad to hear he made it there safely. Keep us updated. He's in my thoughts.

I haven't really thought about it yet, but this is what I'm guessing: something new: dress, veil, etc. something borrowed: (ask one of my sisters for earrings maybe) something blue: probably a garter something old: my dad's pendant pinned inside my dress

I love it! What are you wearing it for?

Quote: Originally Posted by Jerzzygirl It doesnt interest me for 325.00 either. I wonder if I can change my mind when I get down there If I dont get that "free upgrade"? I think Heidi was looking into that? Because she wanted to change her package from Royal to Free...am I right, Heidi?

Quote: Originally Posted by Jerzzygirl Thanks I was on the Riu site and I didnt see that either. So, 200.00 for the fees, 150.00 for the photographer, and then 8 pictures is maybe 100.00 = 450.00 what are we getting for the extra 325.00? Breakfast in bed? lol I am getting the "Free Wedding" package and then just adding stuff on. The stuff that they're offering in the upgraded packages (natural body exfoliation, breakfast in bed, etc) doesn't really interest me.

I just found these and thought they were cute. They could totally be done yourself though too. (This website has a lot of great gift ideas). Monogrammed Wedding Flip Flops - Morgan & Company

My plan is to wear white flip flops with rhinestones on them at the wedding, "Just Married" flip flops afterwards during the day, and then cute white heels for the reception. So, yeah, I will have 3 pairs of shoes! Go for it...You only get married once, right?!!?

Quote: Originally Posted by Heidi in their online brochure (http://www.weddingsbyriu.com/doc/free_jamaica07.pdf), it says legal documentation & fees are: Civil Ceremony: US $200 Religious Ceremony: US $150 Renewal or Symbolic: US $150 Thanks, Heidi! I've never seen that before.

Quote: Originally Posted by Jerzzygirl I have the Royal wedding package at the Riu and that includes all legal fees and the priest. But what if you had the free package? How much are the "legal" fees and the cost of the minister? I am actually trying to figure out if cost of the royal package is actually worth 750.00? I just checked the RIU website and I went to the weddings section and acted like I was booking a date and chose "Free Wedding 2008". This is what came up on the page that you can choose additional options (flowers, music, etc): Prices are subject to change without prior notice: Jamaica - Ocho Rios ClubHotel Riu Ocho Rios Free Wedding Package 2008 = 250,00 USD But, then I just went back and read this: * MINISTER, PRIEST OR JUDGE SERVICE, LEGAL DOCUMENTATION & FEES ARE NOT INCLUDED. So, I have no idea what the $250 is for! Do you want me to email Chandlyn to find out?

Some of these are really crazy! Marriage Folklore and Superstitions Every culture has superstitions surrounding marriage and the wedding day itself. Many superstitions are so ingrained they have become a regular part of wedding traditions. The reasons why a bride wears white, wears a veil, why the groom carries the bride over the threshold, the placement of the best man, the reasons why there is a best man and bridesmaids, why we still decorate the get a way vehicle with noisy items, and why the bride should have something old, new, borrowed blue… these all come from wedding folklore and superstition. Here are some lesser known superstitions and folklore about weddings and marriage. * It is good luck for a bride to dream of her wedding day. * Feed a cat out of an old shoe and your wedding day will be a happy one. * If a cat sneezes in front of a bride on the day before her wedding, it is a sign of very good luck. * It is bad luck for a bride to read the marriage service on the day before her wedding. * A woman should not marry a man whose surname begins with the same letter as her own, it is bad luck. * It is unlucky to marry someone born in the same month as you. * It will bring bad luck to marry on your birthday. * Be sure that the marriage is completed between the half hour and the hour. * If it rains on the wedding day the bride will cry all her married life. * Postponing a wedding is very bad luck. * It is bad luck for the bride to eat anything while she is adorning for her marriage, wait until after the ceremony. * After the bride is completely dressed and ready for the ceremony she must not look into a mirror again until she is wed. The bride may dress before a mirror but leave something off after she walks away, like a necklace or earring. * Wear earrings when you are married and you will always be happy. * It is bad luck for the groom to see the bride before the actual ceremony. * It is bad luck to make your own wedding gown. * It is a sign of very good luck to find a spider crawling on your wedding gown. * Pearls are the symbols of tears. For each pearl that the bride wears her husband will give her a cause for weeping. * A bride should have her hair dressed and veil put on by a happily married woman. * Good luck will come to a bride if her veil is accidentally torn, especially if torn at the altar. * Bad luck comes to the bride who shows her veil to anyone other than family before the wedding. * In the saying something old, something new… The old should be something from a happily married woman, the borrowed should be an object of gold, and the sixpence, penny or new dime should be worn in the heel of the left show. * The bride should always be happy if she wears or carries a bit of salt. * The bridegroom should carry a horseshoe in his pocket for good luck. * The bride should step into and out of the church with her right foot first, when stepping away from the altar she should also put the right foot first. * At the altar the bride should keep her right foot ahead of the groom’s. * At the wedding the bride should make sure she sees the groom before he sees her. * It is unlucky to give away a wedding present. * The bride should drink a glass of water after the wedding ceremony. * Give the clergy an odd sum of money for good luck. * It is bad luck for the bride to put bare feet on the floor on her wedding night. Keep slippers on or have the groom carry you to bed.

Thank you Cassondra!!!

I voted for #4, but I love them all.

I would love to hear what else needs to be done. I'm 8 1/2 months out and feel like I've hit a lull too. I want to start doing more, but feel like maybe it's too early for some things. If anyone has a DW timeline, I would love to see it!

I agree that you should definitely find a place to try it on first. Also, be sure to check the online store's return policy!

Mo - Hope you're having a great time at your "No Shower Happy Hour" Bachelorette Party in Sea Isle! Can't wait to hear all about it and of course see pictures!

Melissa, I'm sorry to hear that he has left for so long, I will keep him in my prayers. This forum will definitely keep you distracted for the next 9 months...lol!

I'm definitely not letting my FI see my dress beforehand. I want it to be a surprise. I'm pretty sure it is one of those "bad luck" things (not that I would worry about that though).

Jeanette! Congrats on your upcoming wedding! There are definitely brides here that can help you. Take a look in the Cabo section of the forum. Happy planning!

Your pics are great...thanks for sharing! Congrats

I voted #1, then noticed everyone else did too:) They're all nice, but I agree with JaimeLynn, it seems like the first one fits Tom (like I know him or something...).

They look great, Tami! I love it..."Tom's Little Black Book"! I can never keep a gift longer than a day, I get too excited to give them to people...good luck!

Your wedding sounds perfect. While I was reading, I kept waiting for something bad to happen with TWE, thank God it didn't! Thanks so much for your review, it will be so helpful for those planning Bermuda weddings.

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