Quote: Originally Posted by Debs That's why we aren't asking anyone until the actually book. I don't want pressure asking someone who might not make it, and go through the bother of dresses etc if they are going to bail. we contributed towards both of our best friends' trips, making it impossible for them to say no (esp. after the amt i spent on my friend's wedding!). our siblings would obviously be there, but i waited until my other friend booked before asking her to be a bm. i didn't want her to feel obligated to come...so now we have 3 bms and 2 gms too!
sucks that your gm bailed - thank goodness you have some time to figure it out, though...i bet that even if your ffil claimed that he was too old, he'd really feel honoured...