welcome! choosing a place was definitely the hardest part! because there were no sentimental places for us, we narrowed it down by eliminating places we didn't want (for us - cancun, jamaica, florida, and a few others). then we narrowed by budget - knew we wanted an ai so no one would worry about constantly taking out a wallet. THEN we looked at the activities that places offered...my fi doesn't like the beach and doesn't know how to swim, so i needed a place that had other things to keep him busy. he really wanted atlantis in the bahamas, but it's $$$$ and not ai...so we had to find a resort with similar amenities.
at that point we got frustrated and picked the first place that emailed us back. and then i read all these mixed reviews, had a panic attack and wanted to change my mind, but i think many brides do...now we're a month + away, and i can't wait! just remember that you have plenty of time to make a final decision, and there are loads of informed brides (and grooms) here to help you!