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congrats sarah! all of these bdw girl will certainly keep you busy!!! good luck

mmmmmmmmmm i'm so jealous - i love thai food!!!! i love love love jungle curry but there aren't many places that make it...and i'm not sure what you'll be making (other than pad thai) b/c i rely on the english translation, but have fun!!!!

beautiful! can't wait to see pics of you!

i don't know...i've always wanted to go to thailand, but would like to go to bali too... what's the difference in flight time? if you have a hard time choosing, you could always go by that?!

i'm in, and i'm sure i can convince fi to come too (tho it may involve me doing naked jumping jacks...) pa, nj, or ny are ok.

looking good!!! i love your ceremony shoes - they are what i wanted for my reception!

looking good!!! i love your ceremony shoes - they are what i wanted for my reception!

i love it - it's perfect for you!!!

dear fi, why are you being so selfish? i wanted dance lessons, and we didn't do that...now your sayng that you'll only dance at OUR wedding if you're drunk? and you won't participate in the TTD session b/c you don't want to go in the water? this isn't an every day occurance...this is a once in a lifetime thing here and i don't think you understand that it's OUR wedding, not mine. we leave in less than 2 weeks and you think it's a good idea to have a superbowl party?? and when i said i wanted nothing to do with it, you said ok, but now it's my responsibility to clean? i don't think so. and stop your whining about how you spent all day cleaning the shower doors. you want a medal? then i should get a medal every time i clean something. i had to go to the doctor this week to find out why i've been getting such severe headaches and it's b/c of stress. YOU ARE THE CAUSE OF MY STRESS AT THIS POINT! want to know why i'm not in the mood for you? read this post. signed, your stressed wife/fiance/girlfriend who would like to be able to relax.

i'm in!!! i think one should do the job for me, i'm small. i say cover it with a malted, it'll just slide down the throat.

congrats and enjoy it!!!!!!!!!!

we're having food and drinks. i think it's 4 hot and 4 cold appetizers...just little finger foods, nothing that requires anyone to really sit down...i don't think i've ever been to a wedding where cocktail hour was literally just cocktails, tho...

i like them both, but know that i'd look better in the first...so if i had to vote that's what i'd go with.

sorry to hear of your loss, crystal...you're in my thoughts.

even w/o the $10 off it's not a bad price!! wish i had seen them earlier!

i think they look great! congrats on finishing!

happy birthday!!!!

thanks everyone fi said that if i really have a strong sense of moral obligation, then i should say something - after mexico...he wants nothing to do with it - they're really not that close, and it's b/c of her...he also said carly's exact words - don't shoot the messenger. i worry that if i wait till after mexico, the bro will be even more upset b/c he's paying for her to go...but if it's before, then there's still unwanted drama...(however,if it was someone else, i totally am the kind of bitch that would say it the day after the wedding in mexico). damn, i wish wish wish we had a pic of her in the act.

we got ours from sand blast as well. they're quick!

i'm so old!!!! i literally spent sunday saying 'i can't drink like i used to!!'

oh it's so pretty!!!!

wow. can you really tell him not to wear it tho? you should make a pro/cons list for him...or tell him to make it...make sure he includes beach wedding, hot, sand, and sandy butt on the cons list.

we've lived together for 3 1/2 years, but we're taking advantage of that complimentary room at dreams as well. i plan on having my sister spend the night with me so i'm not too lonely, and kicking her out in the morning i'll order room service for breakfast and then begin getting ready.

i wanted a short dress too, but didn't like the one that i thought i'd love at db. i love the new one - if you can't return the first, wear it for the rehearsal dinner!

i desperately need advice!!!!!! my bachelorette party was this past sat. night...a few close friends went into nyc for dinner, drinks, etc..... included in this group of close friends was fi's brother's girlfriend. they've been together for 4 1/2 years, and live together....fi's family HATES her...she's growing on me, but she lack social graces that normal people have (saying please and thank you), and doesn't really know how to talk to people. however, she communicated well with some guy at a bar on saturday night - so well that she was tongue wrestling with him in the bar. she admitted to me that it wasn't the first guy she kissed since she's been w/ fi's bro, and also admitted that she's still annoyed at fi's bro b/c he got a lapdance at fi's bachelor party....we literally had to TEAR her away from him to get her to leave. i grabbed her, and took her to the b-room when i saw what she was doing. i asked her if she knew what she was doing and if she wanted us to 'save' her. she said no, she liked this guy, she knew she shouldn't but he was so cute she couldn't resist. i told fi when i got home; he didn't care...he thought it was effed up, but said we shouldn't tell his bro b/c it wasn't our business. i feel like it's my business - they are talking marriage and i was there, watching....this isn't a friend of a friend, or something like that - it's family now. my best friend said i should tell the girlfriend that she really needs to fess up. fi says if i really feel a moral obligation to say something, i should wait until after mexico (so about 4 weeks)...i also thought about having my best friend or my sister slip in mexico, b/c they have no attachment to any of these people. so what would you do? i'm so confused! (sorry so long, and tia for any advice!!!!)