mine got custom made purses and wristlets, which turned out really nice - and they use them...they also got some ugly jewelry to wear for the day of (which i wouldn't have even given but i opened my big mouth), some makeup samples (b/c who doesn't like to try things out?). i think i put a few other random things into the purses but i dont remember. the guys got swiss army knives from tiffany's that were engraved w/ their initials. i also bought my sis (moh) a nice jewelry box from pottery barn. i would have given my bms more, but i did give one bm $500 to the trip, and had to make it look relatively even.