we registered at macy's and bbb...we didn't need a lot of the traditional stuff, like china, so we just registered for everything that we would want and never buy for ourselves....for the wedding, jewish people typically give money, so the presents would solely be for the shower.
if you are thinking about registering at crate and barrel, make sure that you check out CB2 - a new destination from Crate and Barrel for modern furniture, home accessories, and gift registry. they have awesome stuff there....and if you're into modern housewares, check out Contemporary furniture, modern furniture, contemporary home décor, contemporary home accessories, modern home decor, modern home accessories. they have a registry there too!