Quote: Originally Posted by MoBride I can see that, but then I think what sane person would want to spend their vacation time at a wedding of people they don't really know. Wouldn't you just rather go on vacation minus the wedding? Just strange, but whatever!
maybe she is someone who doesn't have a lot of friends so she is excited to have the opportunity to go on a vacation with people. I know some people don't want to travel alone & can't find anyone to go places with them. It's pretty weird. I would treat her like any other guest though. She would probably be really upset to know the verbal invite wasn't a real invite. So I'd give her an OOT bag, etc. Who knows, she might become your new BFF. OK, not likely. What if she found out what your bridesmaids were wearing and bought herself a matching dress
I hand delivered some of my STDs because a lot of my friends work in a building next to me. I set one on the wrong desk. I moved it before the guy saw it, but we joked that this stranger who sits in a desk near my friend would show up at the wedding. Then we'd never want to let him know he wasn't really invited so we'd just fake that we are excited he is there.
Anyway, if this girl really annoys you at the wedding, I can photoshop her out of your group picture.