Quote: Originally Posted by BillysBride hahaha...ya, Hartyt. I'm gonna let my mother go after her. Lock them in a room together and just walk away. LOL
Heres another lil' tidbit to get ya laughing. She calls this afternoon. I'm at my kid's new preschool, so I don't answer at the time. But what message does she leave? "Oh, girl just wanted to call and let you know that Deal or No Deal is holding auditions close to us. Just thought this was something that might be your cup of tea!"
Umm...ok. My WEDDING is my "cup of tea" right now. I'm over it. I sent out emails to everyone including her today saying "Hey, here are the two dress options, final cut. For those of you who fell in love with the first dress, plan to wear it. For anyone who objects, dress #2 is your option. If you like it better, feel free to order at any time this next couple of months. If you don't like or feel uncomfortable with both dresses, I completely understand and won't hold a grudge if you fee strongly enough about it to not want to participate in the ceremony. By all means, come to the wedding and enjoy it all as a guest. Either way, its going to be a blast.
My other maids know the issues I'm having, so they will know just who I'm talking about. lol. Oh well.
Send her an email with a picture of the dress that says "deal or no deal- are you in my wedding or not?"
She might just be looking for a way out & you giving her an option to not be in the wedding might be just what she needed. If she is so uncomfortable with dresses & certain social situations, being a BM might be more than she can handle.