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Quote: Originally Posted by angitalia23 Thank you so much everyone for your posts, I was not able to sign on at all yesterday or today until now and your thoughts and prayers have made me feel so much better. Right now my grandma is stable, we received a second opinion from another doctor and he is going to try another intervention. She currently has breathing tube and feeding tube down her throat which is causing so much pain....due to all the pain, they have heavily sedated her. The other doctor thinks that doing some new techniques could help, she will be in much less pain and she will be stable for several more weeks once she gets better nutrients and health back....that was such good news for everyone to hear! I love BDW and was happy to get support from your gals' here- thanx~* that is wonderful news.
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Quote: Originally Posted by becks You guys are the best! I'm going to the drug store tonight to see what they have to offer. I was so bummed, because my dentist does the superfast light-treated whitening, but charges an arm and 2.7 legs! So, not so much. But now I have hope that I will have pretty white teeth for my wedding! Woo hoo! my mom did the instant thing & wasn't thrilled. She still has to use something like whitestrips from her dentist. with teeth that are already white it won't take long to get your teeth gleaming for the wedding.
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What is the biggest source of conflict in your relationship?
rodent replied to Alyssa's topic in Chit Chat Corner!
Quote: Originally Posted by LC_Rachel money money money. We don't fight about other stuff much and if it's something else, then usually money ends up coming up. LOL We just have different opinions of how our money should be spent- i'm conservative and he's a bit more free spirited with the money so we sometimes clash heads. We knew this before the "I Do's" so we aren't shocked. It's not something we can't work through though. that was our struggle. i losened up a little & he tightned up. We are both really happy with the change. I was still living in broke undergrad mode. So to try to get me to relax he was splurging on me. It was stressful! We are much better at being a team now. I'm excited to see how our money sharing strategy goes. I love to invest & save. When I see a nice return or reach a savings goal I want to come home & share it with mike. But, I know it will feel much better when it's our money and we can reach these goals together. -
What is the biggest source of conflict in your relationship?
rodent replied to Alyssa's topic in Chit Chat Corner!
i picked other because we don't fight about the same thing over & over. it's usually that one of us got snippy with the other & the fight is about being polite to each other. Maybe any of those hot topics could trigger the snippiness. I'm a total mess & I'm sure he doesn't like it, but we don't fight about it all the time. I try to clean when he asks me too, but I enjoy living in clutter. it's how I function. We just keep seperate spaces. We fought about money when we first started dating, but we've resolved those differences & I think we have a really healthy money relationship. That was so important to me because money was the main thing that drove my parents apart. So we don't see eye to eye on many things but I feel like over 4 yers of living together our communication has gotten better. -
What was your biggest adjustment after getting married?
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Quote: Originally Posted by melglnh2o Morgan ~ That is funny!! I love the different perspectives. Thankfully Charlie and I have his and her sinks because I could see how that might caused some issues but I must say that my hubby is very very clean! we shared a twin again one christmas. I woke up to him singing about how great a twin sized bed is. -
What was your biggest adjustment after getting married?
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Quote: Originally Posted by Davematthews16 So you might think we're crazy but...The first week I moved in with my FI (we've now lived together 1 1/2 years) we pushed my double bed and his double bed together so we have 1 giant bed, but seperate sheets, mattresses, blankets, pillows. People laugh at us when we tell them, but then they realize how much sense it makes. We have slept wonderfully every night since, and I recommend it to everyone hehe We have our own sheets. We tried to share at first so we have full sized sheets & a comforter. So now it just covers me & hangs off the bed. I've said that when we move I want two full sized beds together. Mike gets up a lot earlier than me & he takes his comforter with him when he moves into the living room to stay warm. I told him he was giving me nightmares because I'd see this cloaked figure walking out of the room when I was half asleep. -
Quote: Originally Posted by MikkiStreak Yee-Haw, Uncle Jessie! Where's Bo & Luke to help me wrangle up Boss Hawg here? (Image from the autobiography: "Daisy Duke: Life before Bo & Luke whored me to the cops") Ha Ha! That is little morgan wearing my "i heart my pig" button. My brother was wearing a matching shirt. Well, without the ruffles. Those ruffles do look like daisy duke in training.
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Quote: Originally Posted by LC_Rachel See that's kinda what I think- if they don't get it, then they have the option of giving cash or maybe buying something off a regular registry. Honestly, we didn't need anything so we registered even though we didn't want to. Now I have a bunch of stuff we didn't really need. I would have preferred cash but how can you just say "write me check or slip me some $20s?" We also have a $250 gift card to a store and we have no idea how to spend it. We don't really like anything there! But then again, I don't really have an uptight crowd that follows etiquette rules. Some of that stuff just seems so silly to me. I agree. Everyone just wants money but for some reason we have to register for house stuff instead. I love the gifts that have been rolling in, but I was fine without them. It's the big wedding machine. Sell more stuff. I agree it's tacky to stick a deposit slip in the invite, but wouldn't we all love it if it wasn't?
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Quote: Originally Posted by amandalovesryan give me that dress! it is my time to get married, my time, you hear me! Ahahaha! I love this game! productivity-10% fun-120% I'm in prewedding mode & couldn't focus on work if I tried.
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and now for my MOH magic trick. I tug on the table cloth and viola...oops sorry carly. Yeah, you were right I should have just stuck to a reading or something more traditional.
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What was your biggest adjustment after getting married?
rodent replied to melglnh2o's topic in Chit Chat Corner!
If I stay up too late mike "goes diagonal" across the bed. Once we have a home we are getting a king. we slept on a king during a vacation. I loved it & he said it was lonely. -
Quote: Originally Posted by Alyssa that is what i think too Morgan, especially b/c you are having a more traditional at home wedding. i think we all get it b/c we are all brides in the middle of getting married and paying for these little details but most guests are not thinking about this stuff! yeah & most non-brides don't understand the cost of photographers. But, I like the diea of stating that it is for prints & photobooks. My friend is having a beautiful wedding, but her photography budget is tiny. I'd love to pitch in for her to get someone better instead of buying her something off the registry. Instead I'm shopping around for someone great closer to her budget. I found a guy I really like if she decided to spend $1,600 instead of $1,000. I also worked on finding her dress for less. So brides get it. Photography really matters. Will your aunt understand? maybe not. But, there are choices for what to get someone.
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What was your biggest adjustment after getting married?
rodent replied to melglnh2o's topic in Chit Chat Corner!
We used to share a twin! Now a full is feeling crowded. I had trouble adjusting to him waking me up in the morning. I got an ocean sounds CD (I uploaded the mp3 to the forum is you want it) and I sleep great. We have been living together for 4 years. The main change after the wedding will be combining money. We are devising a game plan now. We have been splitting everything, but since we got engaged we don't really bother to write the grocery costs on the list. I'll be happy to chunk that list & not have to keep track of everything. Less paperwork. -
Quote: Originally Posted by LC_Rachel I think it's totally different than asking someone to chip in for the caterer. If I were to get a registry card for photography, I would assume that my gift would be a nice print for their wall. That I would help contribute to paying for nice things like photobooks, prints, etc. Not the services per say. true. I would be happy to pitch in on a photographer, but I wondered if it would feel to some people like pitching in on the wedding cost.
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What? You are the one who said I should get the grande at starbucks.
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hay baby, your sink or mine?
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What happens when you let the PR firm of Samantha Jones & Associates take over for your business image
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can you get a new TA? my TA always tells me to stop getting involved & let her handle the guests questions.
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yikes! that is a tacky tie I would be scared to see her dancing.
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Quote: Originally Posted by amy&andy08 Plus...an added bonus, I put them on after dinner time and it keeps me from eating more crap! They are like little diet strips i do my trays this way too
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Quote: Originally Posted by Kat81 I also use the Crest strips. I swallow and haven't died yet lol. I can only use about half the box as well because my teeth get so white. It is kind of annoying having to place them on your teeth and the taste is nasty to me. Other than that they are great. the "don't swallow" rule is probably because of the hydrogen peroxide. it's really damaging to cells. I think the best is just to use it a little. I imagine their are some bleach-a-holics like with anything that might be causing damage. You can also get a chemical burn from too much hydrogen peroxide. I stress my e. coli out with hydrogen peroxide.