I've tried to really make it easy on my BM's. I bought their dresses, and will be paying for their hair as well. Mind you, I only have 2 BM's so it's not going to be that much more of an expense for me. I just put it into the "wedding budget". They will either go barefoot or wear barefoot sandals and I'll buy those as well. We are also going to do our own makeup but I might treat them to a makeup lesson at MAC as well.. just cause it would be a fun thing to do. I just felt they were spending alot of money to get to Maui and stay for a week so wanted to ease the burden a bit. I've told them I don't really want some huge bachelorette party or anything so hopefully they don't go overboard with that. I'd also like to find them some nice turquoise earrings to wear.. hmm