We are paying for everything. My parents have offered to give us some money but I don't want to assume anything. They can't really afford to give us much so I would rather they spend that on themselves getting to Maui! My mom is also insisting on an AHR but again I would rather them help my sister and her b/f getting to Maui as well as them instead of just giving money to us. I doubt FI's parents will contribute. All they do is bitch about it being so expensive in Maui and how they aren't sure they can come.