I mention to Mara that I might skip the site visit,since I have selected/ contracted my own vendors for the wedding. From her email, I have to do a site visit to finalize the wedding with the vendors and do a menu tasting. I have open discussions with my vendors, via email regarding what they should do for the wedding. I advise Mara that I will email her the flowers that I want.
For as the menu, I will have to do that on good faith and hope it is good.
That means I have to buy 2 more airlines tickets for the site visit, then buy the two tickets I need for the wedding.