Quote: Originally Posted by Mrs.B 2008 thanks ann - i agree with you. the thing that is so annoying is that we are not giving anyone any guilt or putting expectations - we have been saying that is what we want to do, what is right for us, we understand not everyone can do, blah, blah. why can't people just accept that and be dissapointed but not put it back on us
i am getting on the soapbox with you! Agreed!!
When we first started planning our DW, we had heard plenty of comments about the expense, length of travel, etc. We shared the same, “no pressure†attitude as you and your FI. We decided to ignore people's remarks, and plan the wedding that WE wanted. In the end, we have a wonderful group of people coming to Mexico with us, and we could not be happier with our decision!