Quote: Originally Posted by cessyboston sorry girls...i am late......well i think miss shelly said it perfect...find out what color line they are using...i am only redken but we have a couple of lighting creams (bleach) we use ..it is so hard with box color DO NOT USE IT...it makes your hair a mess i know it is cheaper but its so bad it builds up in your hair then you end up paying anyways....my advice to you is find a girl you trust and stay...they can tone your highlights once they bring them up sometmes you may not get past the brassiness although it can take a couple of times...i always say please be aptient with me i will get you there but you must do what i say (good products and no box color).. ask any time about hair i will be honest.. good luck sweetie and be patient.. Thanks everyone!!!
This makes me feel a little bit better for a couple reasons.
now I really feel like I shouldn't use th box because like you said i wil end up paying anyway! Plus honestly, I hate dying my own hair!
Second...I feel better knowing that hopefully next time she can get it lighter and then by the 3rd time (probably right before the wedding, it should be where I want it... I will stay w/ her until at least after the wedding and then if I like her still keep her and if not then go else where...