I am with you on this...I actually will drink and go to a club or whatever but it's not my first choice..I would rather sit at home and play board games too!
Plus alot of my friends are past the stage of "going out" and drinking so some of them said they would go to dinner, etc...but not to a club. My sister doesn't drink really...but the 2 friends throwing it for me love to drink and dance...
I am going to tell them though that I want something mellow. These 2 ae the only 2 who will be in cabo so I figure we can drink and party there...and keep the bachelorette party mellow.
I know winetasting won't work for you because of the alcohol, but I am thinking about that..maybe they have some other limo tour type of event in your area that doesn't have alcohol attached?
Also, If I stick around locally, I was thinking maybe dinner and a comedy show? I love comedy shows and those who want to have a few drinks can and then the others don't have to and then you can end the night there or have everyone stay over in a hotel and have a slumber party!
I also like the idea of the passion party (we did that for a friend of mines)