StephanieMN

Happy Birthday to you!! Enjoy yourself.

We are going to do something but not the invite. To me it would be redundant to send an invite to something that you have already told the host you can't attend. We are thinking of sending out announcement that will be on the same paper just not with all the extra info. You could also send out the invite with a rsvp card saying we are sorry we won't be seeing you in___ and you will be with us in thought . but something fancier than that.

Thanks for sharing that! What a wonderful way to show your love.

I just need to jump on this Buck and Doe thing...ummm why don't we do that here! Maybe we should start a trend. I have never heard of it! I think it is tacky of people to invite themselves to your wedding. It is just as bad as inviting themselves over to dinner at your house so you can feed their lazy butts.

Oh I think some of us make it a hobby--even after the wedding--to help plan other wedding. Then there is me who just loves surfing for stuff. WELCOME!

Welcome to the forum!

Stunning! Sorry your wedding didn't go as planned--the photos lie for you!!

Umm I think I might be pregnant after seeing those!! Those are insane! Way to strut your stuff----sexy mama!

Bring them over to my house and I will straighten them out. Yes how DARE you pick where you get married--you are very selfish!! Maybe you should do a poll of your guests to see what they would like for your wedding to be. Maybe they won't like the colors you have picked so check that out BEFORE doing anything. ( thus ends the dripping sarcasm) Do people just not hear what they are saying? SO sorry you are going through this. Eloping may work better but make sure it is what you want. Good luck sweetie!

That is great! You are just knocking things out of the ball park. Now you just have to get on those DJ's...or maybe you have that done too.

Welcome! Happy planning

WELCOME! There is a wealth of information here.

WELCOME! Ask as many questions as you need.

Oh I forgot to mention that I have the url attached in my emails so every email I send out has the site on the bottom so no one can say they forgot about it.

Wow those are really cool! Glad you found something!

What a great find! Thanks!

Welcome to the forum and happy planning!

Welcome! Happy planning.

How odd to ask to be in someone's wedding. You could try the whole " I really don't want to put anyone out, so I am not having anyone stand by me." You could also just tell her you prefer to go the non-traditonal route and not have attendants.

I think there are some mom's on the forum but we will still help you even though you aren't the bride

Those look great! nice job!

Our went up a lot once we got closer to our AHR date. Yours looks great! I have looked at some and it seems like they put them up and forget about them. WE used oneandone.com to make ours and you have more freedom to so stuff. My FI already had a website through them so it was like $6 a month. I say keep up the good work and they will come.

Quote: Originally Posted by foxytv Wow, that sucks. I bet I'll have a lot of 'no responders' too. If you have email addresses ... I'd send out an email saying that the RSVP date has passed and that you have to finalize things with the resort, so that you are assuming that if they didn't RSVP that they are not coming, so to let you know ASAP if that is not the case. I forgot to RSVP to a friends wedding last year (it was in Ohio) and she called to ask -- and I WAS going ... so you may have some that simply forgot to RSVP, so email is a good option for those you can reach that way (I have several relatives who don't havemail ... so those perhaps you can call ... or have someone call for you). I REALLY like the idea of asking someone else to call. This will make it less stressful for you. Could you BM or MOH doing it? Or split is and give some to the underworked best man.

Hoping it is safe for everyone. Good luck ladies!!

I am all for NOT holding peoples hands but I have read where some people will start to call their guests if they have not heard. This goes against the whole RSVP concept but it may help your with the stress. We just had our AHR and only half the people RSVP'd. Those were the people who came.