Your friend made me mad & I just read your post. Seriously, Im sorry she is acting this way. Its unfortunate but thats how some people are or what they turn into...its funny that when something fabulous happens to you (like your proposal) you truly see who your friends are...some people turn very jealous and show their true colors. It happened with me and a close friend after I got engaged. Regardless, focus on you and everything you and your FI are enjoying regarding the wedding. I would put her comments and little remarks on hold right now in your own mind. Best of luck!