Im so sorry Maura, its not easy dealing a sister sometimes let alone when shes not helping you with anything. After reading your thread...it made me realize how little my sister (also my MOH) is doing. I have not asked her to do a thing except make a phone call for the limo for my bacholorette party, she still hasnt and the invites are already out (my friend did them). When I showed her my fans for the ceremony...she commented "you know fans make you hotter when your hot"...ya it didnt make sense but I was so excited and I didnt get a compliment. She is one of my best friends but we still argue and basically its like pulling teeth to get her to do anything. Im just telling you sometimes sisters are lazy and upsetting but they are still your sisters and you probably will not regret having her as your maid of honor no matter how little she has done. Im sure you love her and she loves you, but their still is no excuse for her actions but I guess at this point you just have to blow it off...well because she probably wont change. I hope she comes to your wedding and I hope she starts to help out, if not rely on your friends it sounds like they are more than willing to help. Regardless, let me know if you need anything! It will be okay..I promise