Oh Edna,
First I am so sorry you have to endure yet another surgery. Ugh- that must be so hard. They are never easy. I hope that your health is much improved after it is all said and done.
As for you and Jorge, you have a wonderful attitude. Keep being strong and try not to lose hope. He says you are the love of his life and he just needs some time to be the best for you, then let him have that time. Don't feel bad- he's thinking of you and trying to be the person you deserve. I know it's probably so hard but I bet in the end it will be so worth all the heartache. Let us know if we can do anything for you. Most of all, remember we are hear whenever you need to laugh or vent. Best wishes.