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Me too. I LOVE reading her!!

I'm hoping for some man candy. Hey, married girls can look! Jillian was really cute during the season so I'm hoping I don't end up hating her like Deanna. For bach fans go to ihategreenbeans.com for good bach recaps. It's a funny blog!

Sexy!! It's perfect. I hope it works out!

I was VERY sick on my wedding day. I could barely speak and my symptoms sounded quite similar to yours. Even though I felt terrible, I concentrated on making the most of it. I really believe my positive attitude really helped. Although my voice was really froggy for my vows, it's something that we laugh about now. Sometimes things like that can end up being a quirky memory you laugh about for years. So for now, down all the healthy crap you can and put a smile on your face for your wedding day. It will turn out fabulous- sick or not.

Just be comfy!!

Oh that sucks. Post the pics! I believe we had a complaint on here about this place before. I've really learned through the wedding planning process to look up a vendor on BBB before placing a big order. I hope this can be resolved! Yep- Tami had issues too! http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t13840

It does! Very cute!

See- and in just TWO days. It's good for noobs to see this because they feel like points are hard to get. It's not really hard- just BS and have fun and voila- there they are. Even more important though- your BIG DAY is nearly here!! Screw the points. It's nearly wedding time!

I'm so sorry you had to cancel your original plans but at least you get to go in Dec!! You have a fabulous attitude and you really didn't let this mess beat you. Instead you handled it gracefully with humor and now can cherish the memories fondly. Way to make a negative a positive! I LOVE the pig stuff. Sooo cute!! Congrats on being a MRS!!

awww...that was a sweet email. I really hope you and your FMIL really start your relationship off on a better foot. She couldn't have been sweeter!

I LOVE the candle holders. SOOO pretty!! Plus you can use them after the wedding. I did that with mosaic hurricanes I bought. They now sit on my dining room table and everytime I light them I think of our wedding. I had orginally ordered white capiz candle holders like yours but the bastard company never delivered them so I had to get the hurricanes last minute. Anyways- I love yours better!! The fans are gorg too! I love the tiny little bouquet of flowers- CLASSY!

Crystal, I agree that you should lay out your expectations so everyone is on the same page. It will be beneficial to not only you, but your BMs as well. However, asking someone to sign a contract is more than a little offensive. Since they are your friends, I would think that you would trust them. As for what you friend did to you- well I think she wasn't a very thoughtful friend in asking her BMs to spend that much money when she was having such a low budget wedding that didn't even materialize. Obviously this experience made you think about what kind of bride you want to be and what you expect of your friends. But taking it so far as to make it a business transactions takes that "specialness" of having the people who mean the world to you share in your day. If money is such a huge concern and you are worried that your BMs will not fulfill their obligations, why not just scrap the idea of a bridal party? You can still involve your friends in your wedding without the headaches bridal parties can bring. Or if you are determined to have a bridal party, why not get together with your girls, have some cocktails and apps and lay down what you expect from them. It's as easy as that. Signing the dotted line is a whole other story in my book.

Andi- I really thought your review was helpful! I posted in it, but I'm not sure if you saw. I really think future LC brides should read it. It's a good idea to see the things that you wish would have done differently so they can plan accordingly. I had the same "problems" as you and it's not really anyone's fault. I just didn't know what to expect I suppose so I didn't have a game plan.

I didn't mean to make you feel bad. I just really never read the names of the poster, but rather recognize the siggy or avatar. BTW- a candid photo works. Or maybe even one of a pet? Just some ideas. I can see you aren't a lurker.

I guess I don't get it like the other girls. Are you going to have some clause of what happens if they back out of the "contract?" Personally, I would rather pay for my own crap to be in a friends bridal party, then to ask her to have me sign the contract!!! It's WAYYY more normal and standard to have the BMs pay for their own dresses then to make a contractual obligation. So if you are worried about money, I suggest not ponying up the costs and instead treat them to a nice spa day or something once they are in St. Thomas- that way no money (or friendships) lost!

I'm glad this all got resolved, but if I were you, I would really force the issue of FI to stop setting you and his mom up to have a negative relationship. If he's telling you that she likes the ex better, how the hell are you suppose to start your relationship with her on a good foot? How are you suppose to respond to something like that? If DH told me that his mom liked his ex better, my response would be "well F her then" and never try to form a relationship. IT's just hurtful so why even bother! I think your email was very nice and I'm sure she will appreciate your efforts. Hopefully this can open the door up for the two of you having more effective communication without FI as the buffer (since he's really doing a poor job of it!!)

Dear Tulip, Read this thread : http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t32313 It will help you a lot. It explains how to load a avatar, siggy and other useful forum information! I recommend everyone reading it because it's soo helpful!

Why does this always happen? Why do women even WANT to wear white? IMO it's not the most flattering of colors! But I agree with others- have FI talk to his mom. THat's always the best policy. I still use that tactic now that I'm married.

I'm not sure if the titles are determined by points or number of posts. But either way, all you girls need pics in either your siggys or avatars. I like seeing faces. And it helps identify you and seem less noob-ish. haha.

Gorgeous. You look a little like Alyssa Milano (I hope thats how you spell her name) in #2 & #3 which are my personal favs! The pearls one is hot too. Congrats on getting the courage to do this!!

I checked them out on the photogs site because they are so beautiful. FIrst, WOW I love the palm leaves as the aisle. Was that hard to walk on? Second, your TTD shots are GORGEOUS. Love the bus- they are so unique and colorful. Beautiful beach session too- especially the one of your backs starring out at the waves! Your wedding looked fabulous and you can tell it was such a festive, beautiful occassion. Congrats!

The best part- if you are tried of living breathing wedding stuff, find a thread on your fav tv show and BS with all the girls. It's soooo easy! Congrats on the 1000 pt milestone. Pretty soon you won't even realize how many points you have!

LOVE the hot pink ones- especially the shots with you lying down. I love the ones where you aren't really looking at the camera- it's kinda voyeuristic. I think your FI will love them!

That's cute! My coworkers decorated my cube for my return after the wedding. I had confetti all over my desk and it took forever to clean it all up! Makes you feel loved though. You are soo close! YAY!

Hi girls- I purchased a couple swim dresses to wear in MX. I was kinda nervous to wear it cause I didn't want to look like an old lady, but I could NOT wear the skimpy little bathing suits all my very tiny gfs were wearing. I wore the swimsuit after lots of encouragement from DH and I received lots of compliments. They are adorable, COMFORTABLE and flattering. Does anyone have a Maurices near them? I don't think they have them in Canada so sorry about that! Anyways, they have cute Plus clothing that is young and stylish. Here's a way to find one: http://maurices.com/locations.htm