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Wow! Great job. I really need to get to work now. You have put me to shame!

So cute! I love the matching outfits. Looks like you had a great time!

Holy Moley! So soon. It doesn't seem that long ago that you and Susan were chatting about being 4 months out. Time flies when it's wedding time. Good luck and have fun!

AHHHHH I see no when else knows this either! CRAP!

Happy birthday Kate! You are one day after me I hope you will find some time to have fun. I guess being so busy before the wedding at least prevents you from being stressed about your BIG important day!

Awww...thanks for wishes everyone! So sweet. I had a great day. FI had an event he had to be at all weekend but he did come home for my birthday and surprised me. He woke me up, took me to my fav breakfast spot, surprised me with a pedicure, and bought me a great red purse (I've been looking forever for a cute red purse and could never find one I liked. I guess I should have just spared myself and let him find one!) He had to go back to work that evening, but he did treat me to a great morning. It's weird being 27! I don't know why one year is that big of a deal but saying 27 sounds so much older than 26. lol

We are staying at the Barcelo and I want to contact the WC or any coordinator to find out about a WD. I can't find the info anywhere though. Anyone have an insights on who to contact? Thanks much!

Quote: Originally Posted by Christa I hate that whole "call in every day" thing. Shit, you are distraught, you need some time. And then every time you call in, what are you supposed to say "it's Heidi, like I said 2 days ago, I'm not going to be in this week" I believe this policy is ridiculous as well. I had to call in for 2 weeks. Every day I had to say "This is Rachel. I had emergency surgery to remove my appendix. I won't be in." My benefits specialist that handled my FMLA told me I had to call in EVERY day or my dept. could potentially let me go. They also made me go ask my dr. to offer more specifics about my surgery. Hello- opened abdomen, removed appendix, hospitalized 3 days. What more did they need? Anways, off topic, but in a round about way- company policies are sometimes asinine. I hope yours will work to benefit you and if they don't, I agree with everyone else. Why work for a place that puts you through this turmoil? I would hope that they would at least have a little bit of vested interest in your well being. And right now, it sounds like they don't.

First of all, you are covered by FMLA. As long as your doctor verifies that you were incapacitated for 3 consecutive days, then you should be qualified. I have seen FMLA granted for those with anxiety issues as well so I think what you were dealing with would fit the criteria. However, my company does mandate that those on "pending" FMLA call in to work every day they are out until their FMLA has been officially approved. You can be disciplined for not calling in, but your boss can not refuse to pay you if you qualify for FMLA. We require those that file for FMLA do so 2 days upon their return to work. I don't know if this is a FMLA mandated rule or our companies. I would check into your companies policies and submit your FMLA paperwork ASAP. On the more important your note, your boss sounds like a vile human being. To not be empathetic towards your situation not only makes her a horrible boss, but a horrible person. Yes companies have policies and procedures, but there are exceptions to the rules (I see it in my company all the time.) There isn't an excuse for cruelty towards someone who has undergone a hardship. I think she should have been able to see the bigger picture and turned her cheek to your "so called violation" of policies. Hang in there Heidi.

Middle! Love the tropical look...quite appropriate!

I think its classy and pretty. You wouldn't have to worry about the dresses looking out of style a decade down the road either. White is classic. However, in that pic it took me a minute to see where the bride and groom are. Generally in pics they stand out since they are usually dressed different. Not sure if that's important to you. If not, it looks great!

I don't understand why people use the excuse "short on cash" for not being a decent person and doing the right thing. I have a friend like that and it seems like the "short on cash" excuse has been working for a few years. I would pay for dinner/drinks or whatever activity we were doing and then she would turn around and buy something for herself. I finally just stopped paying and let her not go to dinner or out with us for drinks. I think it's important to bring this issue to light with your friend-that is if you want her to remain one. I think it's slightly unfair to be upset with someone and never clue them in (even if they should already know why your upset, but some people are just oblivious.) I would be upfront and honest that way she has the ability to correct her actions. If she just doesn't get it after you confront her, then you at least know how she really is and you can act accordingly from then on. Good luck Shelley. Friend issues are always so touchy.

I'm late too. I love #2 though. I don't think it's "common" at all. Very beautiful and looks great on you! Congrats Amy!

Love it! Nice work.

Quote: Originally Posted by chrisnessa If I'm correct she said yes to fondant due to their new equipment. In 2 wks she said they'd be getting that equipment. "The cake will be fine, they are getting some new decorating tools in the next 2 weeks and they say they can do anything." Quote from the bakers to Nicole. " Send her an email and make sure thats correct but it appears they can now do many things. I'm telling you girls )brides...Las Caletas is going to be a big deal w/ brides very soon in terms of matching up head to head w/ the hotels in PV. I'm glad we are coming in on the beginning of the progress. No kidding! Especially since rates have gone up since I booked. I'm sure they will continue to rise. Lucky us! At least I got a deal on ONE thing for this wedding.

Quote: Originally Posted by Stephanie 525 How did you find that? That is totally it!! Thanks a lot for doing the search. I had no luck. Now I KNOW I made the right choice looking at the back It surely is beautiful. Here's the link I found it on: Bridal Gowns Butler Bridal Shop

Quote: Originally Posted by tvt hey girls. is there a minimum size for the delux wedding package?? Like minimum amount of people? I don't think so. Nicole told me that they recommend the deluxe package for everyone. I was concerned we wouldn't have a lot of people and she said whether I have 7, 12 or 20 people she recommends the deluxe. I did notice they changed their packages. I didn't really notice a difference between 2 of them, but I didn't look too closely. I'm already booked.

And back? And top?

Is this it?

Like fondant? I love it, but I figured it wasn't a possibility.

Quote: Originally Posted by Nrvsbride Only when there is something wrong does the doctor call herself. The fact that she had a tech call means that everything is okay. I had some blood tests done awhile ago and they told me I had a high blood count which was indicative of an infection, and then after extensive testing the tests came back normal. Sometimes they just tell you stuff to be cautious but in the end it turns out everything is okay. I think this is great news and you should celebrate!! Glad everything is alright! And I agree with Glenda. I think sometimes doctors tell you things to be cautious. My mom had extensive blood tests last week and they said she could have some type of cancer or lupus. Results came back negative yesterday. For a week, we were sweating it out though. I hope you and Amos can relax now. This little scare will make a baby that much more thrilling.

So pretty. Nice work. Can we find a pic of the dress online? I'm dying to see the whole thing. I love the lace top!

I love Moms. They are the best. That's so great that she surprised you! My mom does stuff like that all the time. It's amazing how giving they are.

Your skin looks amazing. It's totally glowing! Way to be brave. These couldn't be more gorgeous!

I looked at Le Kliff early on as an option. Very beautiful. That is on my "to do" list when we finally get down to PV again. Happy planning! You found the right place- it will be so easy now!