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That sucks. Beat the damn computer up!

haha funny. I always wondered what that archive section was for but never really looked at it.

Quote: Originally Posted by jillhigginsphotography I see so many weddings from start to finish - and it is always sweeter when the bride and groom see each other before the ceremony (If done the right way.) I choose a private spot and have the groom stand with his back to the direction that the bride will be walking. (I use a long lens so I am far away and the couple has privacy). The bride walks out and calls the groom's name as she gets close. He turns around - they have their moment - I am able to capture it all. Not only does it make for truly beautiful images, but they get to hang out and talk and enjoy spending time alone. Believe it or not, the walking down the aisle moment is still special to the guys. If a couple waits to see each at the ceremony, they usually don't end up with any "alone" time because things get busy and crazy after the ceremony. You can still get good shots by planning a little time to yourselves before the reception. But honestly - the guys just don't seem to be as sweet then. I think everyone is really ready at that point to get to the reception, hang out with friends and family and have fun. Just my two cents - probably worth one cent. I totally think that's a great two cents. My FI will probably be so impatient during the picture taking- especially if he knows people are taking tequila shots without him. I don't know if we will have much time to see each other before the ceremony because of my location, but we schedule time a few days later to do some beachy shots. Also, I have seen some REALLY beautiful evening shots too. The sky is just magical. Adamsgirl comes to mind. Check out her pics. They are gorgeous.

I'm so sorry to hear that. Your family is in my thoughts. Travel safe.

Busy busy busy! A second site visit? If you weren't so busy, I would suspect it was just another excuse to have a pre-wedding vacation. Try to squeeze some fun...and tequila shots in there.

I missed this one. Thanks Tammy and the mods. I don't know if I would have had the courage to have a DW- I felt so alone in the planning. Now I have so many questions answered and you all answer them before I even think of them. So nice!

Me too! I can't wait to see pics! You guys are so cute.

Woohoo! How exciting. I like no bills! Is Wentworth Miller the prison break guy? I think he looks kinda like Channing Tatum who isn't gay. Have you seen Channing's pics modeling underwear? Google it fast!

I actually got married when we were in Vegas earlier this month- nearly 3 months before my wedding. It was quick and painless. Honestly, it doesn't change your viewpoint on your "real" wedding. I'm still just as excited to commit to my FI in front of my friends and family. I told my mom and sister that we were hitched in Vegas. They understood that it actually saved us money. I haven't told any other guests because they don't really need to know. What they witness at the wedding will still be the same commitment.

You came to the right place. Tons of information- including budgets. You will get a pretty good understanding of costs. To have a basic wedding at the resorts, it's pretty inexpensive. It just depends on how much extras you add.

Thanks for the info. PICTURES! PICTURES!

Very pretty. And only $99? WOW. Can't beat that. Take pics!!

Welcome! This forum will help you so much. We have the same wedding date! Woohoo.

ME TOO! I get super blotchy on my chest. Not so much my face. My mom said it's because I'm allergic to alcohol but that's just her wishful thinking. She hates alcohol, but I partake in a beverage or two. I usually start getting flushed after a couple and then everyone laughs at me. This also happens when I'm angry, sad, embarrassed or any time of emotion really. It's like a mood indicator. Totally sucks especially at work. Someone can piss me off and I try to keep a poker face but Bam! my chest turns blotchy and everyone knows I'm mad. I had to wear a high necked shirt for my speech class in college. It was embarrassing.

Woohoo. We were so elated when we did that too. You will have the best time- regardless of heat.

Wow. Everything is fabulous and so classy. Wonderful taste Paula. This is the first time I have seen your dress. I must have missed it when you posted. Can't wait for pics. Have a wonderful time!

I suspect that FBIL probably already knows. If she is this careless to make out with a guy in front of YOU, then I doubt she has been too secretive other times. I mean you even confronted her in the bathroom and she still didn't care. I too, like to right wrongs. But I think for this case, I would confront her. I would tell her it's unfair of her to expect you to remain quiet. I would ask her that she tell FBIL. If you still feel the desire to tell him, then do so- after the wedding.

I suspect that FBIL probably already knows. If she is this careless to make out with a guy in front of YOU, then I doubt she has been too secretive other times. I mean you even confronted her in the bathroom and she still didn't care. I too, like to right wrongs. But I think for this case, I would confront her. I would tell her it's unfair of her to expect you to remain quiet. I would ask her that she tell FBIL. If you still feel the desire to tell him, then do so- after the wedding.

That's ridiculous! Seriously bad business. I agree, go up the ladder. Hopefully that will get you somewhere.

Catering dept! Why would they be in the rooms? That's so inexcusable. The hotel needs to crack down on this and I'm so glad that we read articles like this on BDW. It would certainly help future brides to reconsider their location choice if their hotel acted like this! SO scary too. I have some guests that are concerned with going to Mexico and I told them to just be smart. Bad stuff can happen everywhere, but I was even naive enough to think the hotel safe's were ummm....SAFE!

Maybe just ask her anyways since she is a good friend. Explain to your FI it's not about numbers, it's about having those that love and support you two as a couple to be at your sides. Why does he want it even? For picture purposes? Maybe show him pics of uneven bridal parties. I bet you could find a ton on here.

Personally I would be offended if a friend asked me to be a back up. It's not cheap being a bridesmaid either- especially a DW one. Not only do they have the attire to pay for but the trip as well. We have 2 BM and 1 GM in my wedding. I don't think numbers have to be even. Maybe your sister will come. I have noticed with a lot of people that couldn't make our wedding didn't lack the money, but lacked the priority. Maybe your sister has planned to make your wedding a priority and will do whatever it takes to get there. To help, maybe you could help compensate her attire. Just an idea. You will figure out what works best for you, but I really wouldn't be worried about the numbers being uneven. Especially at a DW- everything goes!

I have a huge family (6 aunts on my mom's side- one is coming). I thought more would make it, but unfortunately they aren't. I will have more friends than family at the wedding. But my family doesn't travel much, so I should have expected it.

My old roommate used to turn bright red after "having relations" haha with her boyfriend. We used to tease her to no end. I think she turned really red after cardio too. Are your fair complected? Maybe it has more to do with your skin tone. But I'm no doc.

Just to add, is it more expensive to fly on President's day? That's something to consider too. They always jack up prices for holidays and I don't know if this one would be an exception. You may also find that most of your guests will come for a longer period of time- especially if they are travelling far. My guests ended up staying a few days longer than they originally anticipated because it wasn't that much more to add a few days. And they like the added vacation too.