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Oh what a coinky dink. I just changed my siggy without knowing the challenge. I may find another pic for a better caption though!

Anyone a "fan" of true blood via facebook? They just posted some sneak peak photos and they really have my head all confused now.

I think you should just be upfront and tell her. Just say look- I like you. I like our friendship. However, if you can't come to our wedding and be respectful to others, then I think you should maybe sit this one out. You don't need drama. Period. And if she wants to get all confrontational with people during your WEDDING, then she isn't really that good of a friend.

Quote: Originally Posted by Lady_Di wow, i laughed so hard....i feel bad for her! how did you find the pics?? I received it in an email. I died laughing so I had to share. It just makes you feel better to know that even when things are rough, at least your ass doesn't stink!

Oh Heather. Those bastards. I would seriously be soooo upset too! I hope you can find a way to still view!

Very interesting. Ok- so I think I forgot what happened in book 9. haha. I can't remember this shit for the life of me. I read them too fast! Plus I have read a lot of similiar type books since then and I'm all jumbled. I think I need a reread.

Quote: Originally Posted by carly Rach - you changed your name! I just got to confused when I saw this pop up, like "I swore that Rachel created this thread, who is this *Rachel*??" Dumb-ass. (Me, that is, not you.) Quote: Originally Posted by TA Maureen Gross, but funny! Rach, you confused me with the name thing too! haha oops! I got a wild hair today and changed my name. Not sure why- haha. I was just like "I don't feel like LC_Rachel anymore."

I can't remember Carly. It was on several months ago I think. Basically she had him come on the show after he has been dogging her about having reconstructed labia. He said they were really big and she had surgery on them. If I remember correctly! It was a hysterical show. I hope you can find it online somewhere.

A very good possibility. Flies do love poo.

Whew! The silver fox is still around! So- did you catch when Perez was on the show? I LOVED that episode. So funny. I had no idea that he talked her about her vagina needing a face lift or however he said it.

haha I always like to spread the wealth. So seriously- if that was my ass, I would be soo mortified. And then I would head to the local car wash and turn that sprayer on FULL blast.

and hellooooo Tammy- your dress was gorgeous. Who wouldn't love it

What about a certificate for a massage? I hear the pregnancy ones are awesome. Hope some of the mommies will chime in!

Yes. I was actually way upset because I wasn't sure if I rushed too quickly and didn't really explore all my options. Unfortunately, sometimes they way you invision your wedding changes so much over the course of your planning and since dresses have to be ordered in advance, you don't always get the luxury of time or "do overs." I will say though that I ended up loving my dress on the day of the wedding. It's hard to continuously look at things and think "I want that!" but you gotta put it out of your mind or you're going to second guess EVERY decision you make. I hope you can find love for your dress again. But if not and you can't really settle, then I'd suggest maybe trying to find one you really do love. Good luck!

I would book the cruise first because obviously getting there is more important than the flowers and decor. I didn't really utilize my WC much until the final months. At least for me, all that stuff wasn't taken care of until the final moments. Many brides change their ideas several times in the planning process. Good luck!

Nice to hear that it's a better situation. No worries- everyone needs a time and a place to vent so don't feel bad.

Oh sweet!! Thanks Erin!

Quote: Originally Posted by Kristy! Aw, thanks for the shout out! My only other claim to fame on this forum is when tons of people changed their title thingy to *licious (like Kristy*licious). That reminds me, I think it's time to change that! haha shout out to SB class of '08! lol That's how I ended up crazy in the head.

Just to point out- I went back and looked. It was written by a man so it's kinda funny that he would right an article about brides finding others who "get" them. haha However he did interview other brides and I'm not sure how BDW slipped under the radar but whatever. I totally laughed at the bride.com (never heard of it?) member calling the knotties drama. Ummm....they are and I stopped that site before I even found this one. Anyways, in the context in the article it sounded ridiculous, like all these little bride cliques. Oh well- I'm glad I'm not the only one that sensed some douchebagary tone, but nonetheless, the point of the article was that websites like this kick ass- which they do!

I would have loved to because I def think that article needed more of an insider's look. Unfortunately, I'm too busy these days. But just in case some of the newer girls have no idea what I'm talking about in regards to Ann and baby Gwen- here's one of the threads that are about the gift sent: http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t21494

haha boy- I need to stop lurking in the shadows. Or you need to check out more TV and book threads Kristy. haha It just needs a rewrite and someone needs to give this chick some good material. Like how Ann had baby Gwen in Cali and the forum pitched a bunch of money together to help her out with stuff.. like travel, food, clothing, etc while she was there. Or how many of our members actually HAVE attended weddings of others- in a DW. That's cooler. Or how many get togethers and meet ups occur so it's not longer "strangers" or wonder if we are all 14 yr old boys. WTF was that one? haha. That thought has NEVER crossed my mind.

I always thought we were BDW'ers. Anyways, I think I'm in the minority here, but while I do recognize all of us in that article, I felt the author was kinda poking fun at it in a sense. I mean- outside of those of us in the "know" of what it's really like, I think others that read the article will be like "WTF? wackos." The examples used kinda make it seem stupid and frivolous. haha just my opinion though. I do love the forum- obviously. I was married a year and a half ago and helloooo I'm still here. I'm just not lovin the article as much because I kinda feel like the author was kinda pulling a mean girls- a la "wow your skirt is cute" in a sarcastic way. I could be way off, so don't let me spoil your fun. Just my reading of it.

Anna Paquin always looks like she smelled something stinky. I'm not fond of her acting either. I wish I had less distraction last night when I watched the show. Steve and my sister watched it before me, so when I was watching it last night they were smacking eachother with dog toys. I was like STFU and go to a different room. So I think I missed a lot of one liners. Stupid idiots. I love Pam and Eric too and I'm sad we haven't seen more of Pam this season. She was awesome and they need to add her back in. I love Jason. Stupid people are so funny. What the hell was up with that egg? Seriously- this show always leaves me going WTF?

Quote: Originally Posted by MarieSam While most brides have a certain vision in mind when planning their weddings, I know that I kept looking at tons of photos on decor, style, etc. and my ideas evolved even up to the last couple months. And since you are a member of this forum -- which has an overload of brilliant ideas from so many talented members -- trust me, it's easy to get caught up with so many fantastic options! Very great point! My wedding ended up being 100x different than I originally planned. Mostly cause I was lazy and didn't do half of the things in my "idea" folders- you know, ideas I jacked from the forum. haha Anyways, in a years amount of time, it would be interesting to see how true to the plans you and your friend both stick. Things change a lot in the final months.