Oh I love the participation required by the guests. So cute for them to add their "we do." Only thing I'm not fond of is this: I take you to be my wife from this point forward, to join with you, and to share all that is to come, to be your faithful husband, to give and to receive, to speak and to listen, to honor and to obey.
Sometimes obeying is good...hehe but I don't like them in the vows. Another form of wording here?