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I agree with all the others too! That's a dangerous email to send- even if she doesn't like you already. Remember- you aren't just marrying the man. The family comes with so don't just think about the wedding but long term relationship with your ILs. This is a good way to really draw that line and give her a reason to not like you. I wouldn't do that if I were you because keeping the peace will make life SO much more enjoyable. While I'm sure you want to fight for your FI and trust me, I do to, but in this situation, he needs to deal with it.

You girls all need to read the books- STAT! They are perfect summer reads. I have the last book- 10 but I haven't started yet. I think I forgot book 9 and need to reread it first. I just remember I was so excited I breezed through it cause it was all Eric and now I've forgotten it! Shit this might be a spoiler....... ETA- so Debbie gets to be on the show? Sweet. She was a crazy character. Not slutty crazy, but just you know- try to kill you insane. Red hair huh? I thought she was suppose to be a dark haired chick. Oh well... not like the books follow anything, but red panther?

Cougs for shame! I don't know who that is and if I google him and find out he's hot and you didn't post a pic, no soup for you! Come back one month! ETA: ok I know who he is now He always plays a bad guy and he reminds me of Josh Duhamel, but a less hot version. I couldn't find any shirtless pics of Timothy (Tim? Timmy?) so he's out as Quinn. Plus he doesn't look dangerous and wild enough. But I found a nice pic of Josh: Still not a Quinn, but not too shabby. I wouldn't mind seeing Channing Tatum naked all the time either: Please be Quinn. Please be Quinn.

I'm not a vin diesel liker but I can see that. Dark and dangerous!

Cute cute stuff. Shoes are sassy and I love the simplicity in the jewelry, yet a punch of color! Nice choices!

Sorry it's been such a rough go around. I think it's always important to be honest and let others know how you feel rather than bottling up because when it comes out bubbling out, it will be toxic! It sounds like you guys had a good discussion so hopefully your sister took your words to heart and try to improve her behavior post-wedding. Nothing she can really do at this point because what's done is done. However, I do hope you don't harbor too much resentment over it all. While your wedding is very important (the marriage more so), your relationship with your sister is extremely important. You will soon forget all the drama from the wedding and possibly chuckle about it together a few years from now. So while it sucks, try to keep it in perspective. Stay positive. I really hope things improve for you in the next 5 months and you really get your chance to shine. (PS- I was married a few days before my mom's 50th bday and I never thought how I might have stolen her spotlight. LOL Maybe I should apologize.... but then again, she probably wanted to forget that she was turning 50!)

Great idea! So many people don't really print pics from trips anymore since it's all digital. I bet people would love to keep it and show others!

Even though you did sign a slip stating that was your measurements, it doesn't mean that the dress is those measurements. I'd start there and see if the dress is actually cut right. Mistakes happen and someone could have made it wrong or as Abbie said- mislabeled it. Don't panic though. You have plenty of time to work everything out before your wedding so don't let this snafu stress you too much!

I think you go through this phase even when married-- not the run part but the annoys the shit out of you part. LOL But yes, cold feet is pretty standard. Don't let those feelings get to you. Think about the positives- why you love him, what parts you DO love and isn't annoying, etc.

First, I don't think you need to lose 1-2 inches to make the dress fit. You are so tiny as it is. See if they can let the dress out, or if they screwed up ordering it (my bridal shop did!) see if they can get you a new one asap. You have time!! However, you look beautiful in your dress! Comfort is a must though. You don't want to be miserable.

I would just be honest with your friend that thinks she's part of the wedding party. Just let her know that you guys are not really going to have huge parties- just one person each and it's your sister. I think that's pretty justifiable and I can't see her feeling hurt or secluded. As for dress shopping, less people means less opinions. Sometimes people forget that it's not about THEIR personal style, but the bride's style and how it looks on her. I've watched enough Say Yes to the Dress to see that having too many people during the shopping leads to headaches! I didn't have a bridal shower either... wasn't a big deal to me and I hate to attend them for others, so I was glad I didn't have one. I planned my own bach'ette party and it was a blast! My BMs were kinda clueless on that stuff and I wasn't very traditional in expecting everyone to play particular roles. I say, just have fun, do what works and all will be golden in the end. Good luck!

maybe check out nordstrom... I love the sort by color option, plus they have great returns and dresses are a little more affordable (usually) than wedding shops. Too bad this wasn't in dark plum because it's very close to the dress you posted above! This one is cute too! I hope that helps! I love the one you posted too. Very unique with an interesting detail.

Here you go Heather. Not very detailed shots, but you get the idea.... It has filligree work around the sides and some diamonds too, hence I didn't want the band to cover it up. I tried to take a pic with my camera phone, but yikes- that's difficult!

I will try to find a pic somewhere... I think there might be some on my wedding pics link, but not sure if I uploaded many. I have a few pro pics somewhere...

I don't think I have the template anymore. I have a new computer and I thought I had it somewhere but I don't think I do. However, just as a heads up, it's a ban-able offense to ask for templates to be emailed (or even for me to send them.) You have to have 150 posts to download templates from the forum. However, I bought my monogram from Sarah Sproullie from Sproullie Designs. Sproullie Designs I don't know if she does monograms anymore since this is back when her business was first starting. Do a forum search on monograms and you should be able to find others to purchase them from. I then took my monogram and pasted it in a word document and created a border around it and cut it out for the thank you tags and cake boxes. I then just glued them to card stock. Super easy and isn't too difficult work on the computer. For the programs, I made this in word too. Just pasted the monogram at the top and typed out all the info and pasted the clip art at the bottom. Cut them out and pasted on card stock. Then I used brads (can be found in craft stores) for just an added detail. I will look on my work computer for the poppy flower design if you are still interested. However, I can't email it to you, but when you get 150 posts you can come back. ETA: I just remembered I'm about 98% positive I posted the templates somewhere on the forum... I will do a search and see if I can find it. I did post them here: http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...program-16710/ Plus other ideas if something else strikes your fancy!

Awwww Carly--- love the new ring and the new proposal. So sweet. Heather- beautiful ring! I love the setting. My hubby picked out an asscher cut too and I had no idea what the cut was until hubby proposed, but I love it!

Quote: Originally Posted by Lady_Di Thanks! Because that is my primary language Oh I didn't know that! I took two years of ASL for my BA. I plan to take a few more after I complete my masters in Speech Pathology. My mom also works as an ASL interrupter in schools. Very cool. Congratulations to the new MRS! I hope it was a fabulous time and everything you dreamed of! You didn't have to wait long to get some pics back.... lucky girl! They are beautiful! Congrats again.

Heck ya! Those are classic and beautiful. I've even seen brides pair more bold jewelry with attire and totally pulled it off. Just depends on your personal sense of style. After all... you just wanna be "you" on your wedding day!

First, welcome. Second, DW aren't easy. I'm sure you will doubt yourself and question the idea many times along the planning process, mainly because people aren't always entirely supportive... unfortunately! However, I can say without a shadow of a doubt it will be the best experience. It's not just one day to celebrate with loved ones- it's a WEEK! Cruise around the forum, read up, digest it all. I bet you will continue down the road of having a DW and will never regret it! Good luck!

Two month project? Holy tenacity! And it paid off-- they are beautiful. Make sure to pack one for the wedding so you can get some gorgeous pro pics of it. Don't want to forget that hard work!

Very pretty and creative! Are these DIY? Very impressive!

Lite- do you have a wedding website? I know a lot of people have just directed people to RSVP on their website and it saves the RSVP card hassle. As a guest, I prefer this method too because I'm lazy and I never fill out RSVP cards on time. I open the invite...oooh and ahhh then forget about the card. ETA- oh and sometimes bumping an old thread with your own question might not get as many opinions because people tend to read the first post only.... even if it's from 2006! I'd suggest doing a forum search about RSVP ideas. This subject has probably been discussed a ton and I'm sure you will even find alternative ideas you might not have thought of. Good luck!

Here's the example I found @ Wedding Invitation Wording Which words are capitalized? Capitalization can be very confusing when wording your wedding invitations. Words that are always capitalized should, of course, remain capitalized. As a general rule, the first word of the first line is capitalized, as is the first letter of the year, which should be on its own line. Numbers (other than the number part of the address or numbered streets with more than two numbers) and states are always spelled out. The rules may seem very silly and arbitrary, but there will always be someone who notices changes! Remember to include the names, date, time, and location. Example: Mr. and Mrs. David Smith request the honour of your presence at the marriage of their daughter Catherine Mary to Edward Steven Mackay son of Mr. and Mrs. Francis Mackay Saturday, the fourteenth of August Two thousand four at five o'clock in the evening Our Lady of Peace Church 123 Happyland Avenue Disneyland, California And I agree with Courtney about the hyphenated twenty-second!

Before you use discountmugs, please do a quick search on the forum so you won't be surprised if you have customer service issues! Just wanted to put that warning out there so no bride is surprised!

Mandy- I'm not sure where you are getting married or when, but definitely look up the sunset times for that date/area. That will help you get a better feel. The sun didn't set for my wedding until like 7-7:30. I can't exactly remember but it was perfect timing. We just wrapped up pics so we were able to get a few in twilight where the sky was just beginning to change. Then we were able to sit and eat dinner as the sun set. It was beautiful and a great way to cap the day.