Quote: Originally Posted by Scubadiva As before it would not be any different if he was just a state or two away they really favor this one! But he is NOT just a state or two away - he has been fighting for our country.
I know when I was planning my wedding, I wanted everyone to feel as though it was the most important thing - and it hurt my feelings when I felt like people placed more emphasis or importance on other things. But your wedding is NOT the most important thing going on, even though we like to think it is. And especially in this case, this is just DIFFERENT.
I would almost guarantee that if you checked with the boutique, that they would change the date for you, given the circumstances ... however, I understand that your friends have already taken off work and it would be a hassle.
So, it sounds like you are going to have to suck it up and take it from your FMIL if it's not worth it to you to change the appointment.